In life, the right decisions often feel very wrong. And the reason why they feel wrong is because the right decision for you will cause someone else to feel very upsetting emotions. And just because someone else is disappointed or someone else is heartbroken or you feel like a complete jerk, or you're worried about what everybody's going to think, fast forward to the end of your life. If nothing changes, do you really want to spend the next seven decades feeling seven decades feeling like you feel right now. Making that call is one of the hardest and bravest and most courageous things that you could ever do because it means you are choosing the love you deserve. It means you are choosing to believe in yourself. The other thing is, just consider the other person. Would you want someone to stay with you out of pity? Sometimes one of the most loving things that you can do is to say, I don't love you anymore, because it's the truth.