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Daddy Issues, Secret Hookups & Love Bombing With Violet Benson

Sex With Emily

  • 170 views
  • 7 months ago
  • 44:07

If you’re trying to focus on self-improvement these days, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, Violet Benson talks about how isolation helped her develop a newfound appreciation for self-love and confidence. Violet is also the founder of @DaddyIssues on Instagram and the host of the podcast, Too Tired To Be Crazy. Not only does she discuss her new favorite vibrator, but she also shares how she learned to stop dating toxic people, the new ways she loves her body, and reveals her secret hookup with Too Hot To Handle’s Francesca Fargo. I also break down some important relationship terms: what exactly is “love bombing”  and how does it correlate with codependency in relationships? Plus, I help a caller with tips on how to initiate sex without feeling like you’re left rejected. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Uqora, Yarlap, Muse, Womanizer For more information about Violet Benson, visit: instagram.com/violetbenson For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

WTF Is Doomsturbating (and Is It Bad for Me?)

Sex With Emily

  • 140 views
  • 6 months ago
  • 41:23

Today’s episode is all about one of my favorite topics: masturbation. Specifically, we’re getting into “doomsturbating,” or masturbating in order to distract yourself when the world feels like just too much. But how much masturbating is too much? Like anything in life, there’s a limit—here’s how to know if you’ve reached yours. I’m also taking your calls and answering questions about breast sizes, how confidence and self-love can change your bedroom game, how to help your partner reach orgasm, and some super fun handjob tips and tricks. It’s one of the most underrated sex moves! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Exsens, Adam & Eve, Uqora For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

Will I Ever Stop Thinking About My Ex?

Sex With Emily

  • 120 views
  • 5 months ago
  • 56:19

What if I told you that the best sex of your life was on the other side of your fear? We all have them - fear of rejection, fear of asking for what you want, fear of commitment, and fear of being our authentic selves. Today, we discuss the most common roadblocks to more pleasure and how to let them go once and for all. I take calls and answer questions about taking too long to orgasm, period sex, sexual triggers, and performance anxiety in the bedroom. I help you recognize and release what’s holding you back. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: NeLowT, Good Vibrations, Je Joue, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

Pegging, Glory Holes and Public Masturbation With Carol Queen

Sex With Emily

  • 110 views
  • 6 months ago
  • 49:07

On today’s show, I’m talking with author, sociologist, and sexology royalty Carol Queen. Carol has been leading the charge for open, honest sex talk for over 40 years. We dive into the CDC’s new glory hole guidelines and Carol’s new favorite all-gender vibrators and much more. I also help a couple find the best sex position for their changing bodies, someone wanting to know where they can live out their public masturbation fantasy and a man who wants to make oral exciting again. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: NeLowT, Good Vibrations, Promescent, Uqora, We-Vibe For more information about Carol Queen, visit: goodvibes.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com

Dry Spells, Long Distance Love, and Dealing With the Dating Appspy

Sex With Emily

  • 89 views
  • 6 months ago
  • 46:24

Finding love has always been hard work, but COVID has made it ten times more difficult. That’s why this episode is ALL about dating. From moving off the apps to dating post-breakup, to finding someone who meets your sexual desires, I go over the most common dating debacles. I also cover why it’s crucial that you know what you want in a partner—after all, how can you find love if you don’t know what you’re looking for? To make things easier, I share my top tips for breaking down the steps to finding clarity so that you can manifest your dream partner. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: P.Volve, Good Vibrations, Zumio, Muse For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com