. He has to change himself at 40. And this is happening now. I remember I made a big mistake when I went and I gave a speech somewhere and I said, Oh, she's such a pretty little thing. Then I realized I was objectifying woman. I didn't even know that. But I had to quickly correct myself. Then I learned. But at least I have the wisdom to understand that. For a normal guy, he doesn't know that. He said, I'm complimenting you. Then he realized,. So he now finds that all the ways that he knew is all wrong. He doesn't mean to be offensive.