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But most of all, she is an insanely successful businesswoman. Thank you also. You're welcome, Lena. I hate when people do this and introduce women as the girlfriend of somebody. So instead, I'm just going to say that Adam twenty two from no jumper is your fucking boyfriend.

Yes, he is my boyfriend.

And you guys just had a baby girl. Yes. We have a little bit. Congrats. Thank you. We love a multifaceted bitch and I say bitch as a term of endearment. So don't go.

I'm not going to cancel you. It's all good. I'm not worried about it. I actually have an Instagram called one of the mom, and then I had like a porn Instagram. And that Instagram is currently deleted. But yeah, I'm a mom and I'm a porn girl.

Can we talk about that for two seconds? Because I was trying to look you up on Instagram and I saw the line of the mom page and then I saw a free line of the plug. Is that your page?

It's the new page I made that I got deleted on January 11th as part of a sort of purge, I think, because I know a lot of other girls who got deleted that day. But, yeah, I had, like, made a second page. Right. I could just be more like my full self instead of like my sexy. I'm trying to sell my porn self. Right. And so that became like my a lot of the mom page.

Right. Post like my baby because I obviously don't want to like post all my baby stuff where I have like a ninety percent mail following who just wants to see my ass. And it's so rilly stuff right there.

Like what is this bullshit. You're like, it's my fucking baby but I you you don't have to look my baby.

That's weird. OK, Leonard. So let's jump into this. We have a lot of things in common, particularly the fact that we both let our best friends fuck our boyfriends. So, wow, I didn't know this about you. Yeah. So now, you know, so I start off every single episode of mine with like a mental health check and update people on how I'm feeling. OK, I woke up this morning feeling a little bit down.

I'm not going to lie. And I started like scrolling Instagram and it made me feel worse.

Jonker I like I like what's going to help me right now.

Getting on fucking Instagram. Never a good idea. Never a good idea. I was like, have you ever gotten so annoyed with fucking Instagram that you just closed the app every day and then I reopen it by accident because I forgot that I hated it.

Everyone is on vacation. Everyone looks hot, is everyone has a Birkin bag on a private jet and I'm like fucking over it. I feel that, yeah, I am going to unfollow fucking everybody. And that's just what it is. My mom is you all these bitches. Yes. So how are you feeling now? I put you on the spot, but like, give us the lowdown.

Today's been a good day. I woke up and got a c d test. That's always super exciting.

I worked out with my trainer. I mean, I've kind of been like in a place where I'm like I'm trying to get back into work, like shooting and stuff. But I'm dealing with, like, my most part bod.

And it's like, know, it gets me down and so high that I'm in, but I have to, like, let that go because it's like it's too much. I don't know, like if I had any other job, my body wouldn't bother me as much as it does. But because people get to see every single part of my body, I have to like. I have to make sure every part looks perfect. Yeah, we. That is fascinating because I feel like women already struggle with that postpartum body thing and then it's your fucking line of work.

So it's like 10 times the added pressure. That's while I know it's like annoying because I feel great in clothes, but my job requires me to not have clothes on and I don't feel as confident naked right now. And it is like, oh God, I love my job and I don't want to change my job.

I just have to, like, be okay with not looking my prime right now. And so that's right. Dealing with and it does get me down. And that's why I have to avoid going on Instagram like all my girlfriends are in porn in the same line of work as me.

And I want to unfollow all of them because they didn't just happen. They look fucking fantastic. Obviously, there's tons of things you and I need to always remind myself about that. But it's hard. Even though I know all about the ins and outs of it's still I still see a photo and be like, oh, my God, just perfect.

You know, we all the fucking time I like I fully believe in. I'm like, Sophia, there's no way that they did not Photoshop that.

And if I can be sitting in front of a ring and all of that shit is hard to remember that even though, you know, like you are totally perfect image. Perfect, that's hot. What, she has no pimples ever, you know.

I know. Oh, my God. Tell me if you do this and then I swear to God we can move on. But like, I need to know when you're scrolling through Instagram and like a girl post a story and she looks hot as fuck is the first thing you do is to look at if she's using a filter.

Yes. And then I try the filter on myself and see how much it's my face.

I was going to be my follow up, like literally every single time I try it on my face and like every single time, that's so fucking funny, you know, I just want to say that you look like you have a filter on your face right now.

Like I have a fucking ring like that. I'm literally like it's a strobe light and I to have a concussion.

So you and me face later on in my mind, because you have like really pretty big eyes. You look very beautiful. I'm just trying to think.

Thank you so much. I mean, you look fucking stunning to me and you're talking about your postpartum body. Everybody is beautiful, but your body looks binging, by the way. Thank you. I love the way you got your tits done. Right.

I think I saw I got them done before I had the baby. And then now they like they look like fuckin Calcutta's like literally they look crazy. Like, I'm not kidding.

They they were like perfectly perky and within, like, a week of breastfeeding, they just turned it into like use and they're just like rag doll because your baby will just pull on them.

And I mean, they fill up with milk and then they deflate and they fill up with milk and deflate. And so like it's a whole thing.

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I love it. Been there, done that like we are on the same page. I didn't film it. I'm pissed I didn't film it because I didn't film that either.

Didn't film it either. All we know is that OK. Yeah, like explain you didn't film the act of it. It was you guys just discussing it, right. Yeah.

We filmed like our thoughts before kind of during and then after.

OK, got it. Yes, I remember. So it has over 20 million fucking views. I can't even believe that that is how insane that is. I mean, I'm sure you do.

But think about how much promotion that porn got. And I didn't actually film the porn like I could have probably retired if I had the scene, but I don't have it.

Well, I mean, I'm sure you can, like, reenact or recreate it, but now it's too late because he has confessed right here. Yeah. Was there bad backlash for that video?

I wouldn't say so. I would say it was more like it was it made people really curious. So a lot of my messages and emails have become like, how can I have the confidence to have a threesome with my boyfriend? Where do you find girls to have threesomes with? Like, I just became like the three some guru all of a sudden, like I'm supposed to know everything about how to have a threesome.

And it kind of became like our brand. In a weird way.

I'm not going to lie to you like my follow up question was going to be like, so do you have any advice for three?

So it's weird because I feel like before I used to have threesomes with, like girls, we meet up parties or, you know, just like a girl who would us like a random girl shouldn't have a threesome like we would. But now it's kind of like I just hook up with girls who are in the industry and go get a test. But Industry Testing Center and we plan it and it's a little bit less sexy because it is super planned and there's a theme and, you know.

Right. But so the number one thing people ask me is like, where can I meet people? And I feel like I mean, everyone's using apps now for dating. So I feel like, you know, making a profile with your partner and like saying clearly, like what you want would probably be the best way to go about it. But I haven't personally experimented with that because I've been in a relationship and I'm in the industry.

So, Ray, can I ask you, you just said like they I mean, you have to get STD testing. Do they make you do covid testing now? It's all part of it. Yes.

I got tested this morning and test this morning. And the way that it works in the industry is that you have to have a full panel acid test every forty days before covid. It's twenty four hours or forty eight hours depending on the company you're shooting for. And that goes for like the makeup artists, the photographers. Like, it's not just the talent. Right.

Do you ever go into STD testing being like, fuck, I hope I don't have something or you just know, like you're good to go.

I know I'm good to go like now. But yes, I've definitely been burned like twice.

But I'm just like way more careful than I used to be back in my party. Yeah. Oh, I'm never worried. Like I'm.

No, but I've definitely gotten like gonorrhea twice. I mean, I've gotten chlamydia and after I got it I did. I use a condom every single time. After I found that out though, because I'm a fucking idiot. But like I said, we're going into ACD testing and be like sweating bullets, like I know I have HIV. Like, there's just no way like, I don't have to you knock on fucking wood like, oh my God.

OK, so and oh, that video that you did that was with your current boyfriend, Adam.

Yes, my baby daddy, if you will. Yeah. Your baby daddy.

And had he, like, done sex related content prior to that?

I don't really think so. I mean, he's like from the BMX rap world. And so, like I mean, he made videos of girlfriends, like going dates on them probably and stuff like that.

But I don't think it was ever that explicit. OK, got it. And like, were you doing sex related content before that video or was that like the launching off point?

No, I mean, I was making like homemade porn on my iPhone, basically, like starting right around the same time as that. But I wasn't even really selling, like, boy girl stuff at that time. It was like just got it into it. So I would literally take pictures of my boobs and post it. And that was it.

Like I was eased into the whole now and have sex with my boyfriend and I'm not going to do lesbian stuff.

And now we're going to do like a lesbian gang bang, like, you know, it's like kind of this gradual thing where you just up it and get your fans excited and stuff. But get back there. I was like back then. I'm. Super new to it, and I wasn't as confident in doing all the different types of content. Right. I've noticed with porn that girls kind of start off with girl on girl and then it, like, just it keeps getting not and the intensity goes up.

But like, that's kind of how it goes, right? It's like girl on girl boy girl three some anal gang bang bang.

Yeah. Like you don't want to give it all away and you want to like drive your price up and get people excited and then you know, I mean I don't I like I've always worked for myself so I never work in the traditional industry.

But I think that, like, if your agent was smart then they would. Yeah.

Are threesomes like your thing? Like, is that like your fetish or are you super into that?

I wouldn't say it's like a fetish. I'm not like, oh, I really want to have a threesome this weekend. But I do think they're really fun. I don't know. It's like for me, like it's weird because at first three sessions were like this really exciting thing that I did want to do on the weekends, but like make our sex life a little more exciting. But then they're kind of like very little work.

You know, Ray, either have a threesome. Off camera and on camera, because it's way more fun, but the kind of threesomes I'm having in my life right now are like pretty much all on camera, especially with the pandemic. It's not like I'm going out partying and, you know.

Right. One hundred percent. I haven't done that in a while. But I went through a phase where, like, that was my go to me and my boyfriend was like, do the three something. Really? Yes. And one time it was me, my best friend, him, one of his best friends. And we did like the four person thing we would like switch off. And then we added a fifth guy. What and yes. And didn't only fans.

OK, I just got an email from someone who only fans being like, it's time to start one. And I'm like, I mean, I'm not opposed. I need to ask you about only fans. We're going to get into that in a sec game. But I liked the threesome vibe way more than the four or five.

It feels like it might be too much. I feel like with four or five. Yeah. What? Yeah. First of all, the guy has to really know what the fuck he's doing and be able to handle multiple women. I think when it's two guys, two girls, it's like you switch off, you switch off, you switch off. It's not like the threesome. You're like all in it to win it. Yeah. You know what I mean.

I feel like I would be overwhelmed because I've never been in that situation. But I have done scenes where it's like three or four girls and one guy. And yeah, sometimes I just like sit in the corner and I'm like, there's no room.

There's one dick I fucking love. That's hilarious. Was Adam into, like, the sex content and doing that type of stuff from with you from the beginning?

No, I would say he was definitely like a little skittish about it and it just kind of happened naturally. Like we went on a date and I still like I have like a regular ass job.

At the time that we went out together, we did end up having sex and we did end up like taking pictures with each other naked bad and filming a little bit. And I just for like our own personal use. And so we were kind of from the beginning, just very open minded and a little crazy together and.

Well, we did have threesomes in our personal sex life, we were filming it for fun, and so I think over time he just warmed up to like, why don't we just do this on camera? But in the beginning, it was like, no, don't show my face, only show my dick. He's like a trillion tattooed.

So it was impossible to hide his identity, identity and also a very public relationship.

So it's like there's no way we're getting around this. And I think for a while he was concerned about being brand friendly, even though he's like super anti brand friendly, like he's all about smoking weed. He interviews tons of rappers.

He talks about controversial stuff and like, get over this, like Britain friendly thing.

Target's not giving up.

But, yeah, now you're like Target was never giving you a fucking odd item like this.

And now he's like totally owns the porn star identity and stuff like that. So it was it was progress, but now he's all the way in. OK, that's fucking amazing.

You must be really good at being persuasive.

So good on you. OK, so you and Adam also released a YouTube video where you said we're going to release a sex tape once we hit a million subscribers each.

Is that correct? Yes.

I need to know, how long did it take to get to a million?

I can't remember at this point maybe. I think less than a year. I think there was like a lot of progress on the numbers, right when that story came out, because there was a lot of hype around it and one really viral. Yeah, I think less than a year. I can't remember at this point exactly because it was so long ago. I forget I made that video because I'm like so far removed from that girl.

But yeah, yeah, it a weird time in my life.

And then you didn't end up releasing the video right after you hit a million.

So at that point there was already so much like sex content of us out there. So I didn't feel like I need to go make like a sex tape because I already had, like, tons of sex tapes with him. But then I did end up making a sex tape with him that was on PornHub like porn have shot us. And then it went up on their website. So we did end up doing it. It was like a little delayed, but it exists.

Was Adam like, I need to wear onesie and a ski mask and we just like cut a hole for my dick so no one can recognize me?

Oh, it's so ridiculous because obviously, like porn is like so corny and they write like these like ridiculous scenarios.

And I think the official name of that porn was podcast. Smash is a podcast.

And so, like, the actual scene is like supposed to be him interviewing another porn star and then like I crawl under the tables, were sucking his dick while he's in there and then it turns into a scene. But yeah, you can find it on PornHub. It's ridiculous. I have never watched it. I refuse to watch it.

I don't know, like we I have so much fucking content out there, like you do videos that I would start crying if it, like, surfaced on my laptop again. Like, don't you hate that? Like, I'm not going to call myself a public figure, but just having content out there with your face from years ago and it just will always live on the Internet and you're like, I want to die.

I just don't want to pretend it doesn't exist. Just like don't watch it. I hate when someone comes to me like I used to watch you, like in twenty eighteen. Your YouTube videos really helped me. And I'm like, oh yeah. That's when I was like depressed and blogging and crying all the time. Oh I like to just go and delete those all off a YouTube channel because I want to forget they exist but I have them out there.

Right.

It's like once they're out there someone else is just going to upload it because they already, like, fucking recorded it. I totally feel that you made that video like under PornHub. Right? Like they facilitated the whole thing. Yeah.

I mean, we made like a deal with them and then they were basically the production studio and they put it all together. And then we showed up as talent versus like when I shoot porn, it's like me and my iPhone in my bedroom. And then I saw them only dance. So it was like an official porn in my mind.

Can you release the same video on Twitter and then also do it on porn hub or like how does that work?

I wouldn't release it on Twitter because I know would be free and I don't really like upload a lot of my content to PornHub I have in the past and I've put it to be like unlocked for paid price because I don't really want my stuff out there for free, because I want people to subscribe and pay for it.

But yeah, I have uploaded like teaser clips and stuff like that's PornHub as more of like a way to market myself. But most of my stuff is on premium Snapchat and really only fans. OK, got it.

When you did release the sex tape finally on PornHub, did you and Adam like talk about what I mean, you just said like he crawled under the table, but do you guys like it so specific about what type of scene where you're like, we're starting doggy. And then also. Your dead and then we're doing this, or do you guys just actually just fuck naturally, I think that, like they told they told us how to do it. So it started with like a blowjob.

I feel like it always starts with the blowjob. Always.

And then when I have sex and I'm the director, I'm like one position to position. I don't care. But when you're filming, like, traditional porn, I feel like they have a standard, especially for an amount of time. And they want like five minutes in this position, five minutes in that position.

And like for me, I don't know, maybe I'm just like a lazy fucker. I'm like, I'm not getting on. I'm not doing this on you for like, you know, I mean, for those who can't see, like, reverse cowgirl for five minutes. Yeah. Sorry, I work out. I'm not doing that for five minutes. I couldn't make it in the industry. I would be too lazy.

I don't like when they are changing positions every fucking 30 seconds.

No, I feel like it's like you're just getting into it and then you're getting flipped over again. Like, what's the point?

Maybe because we're women and we know to have an orgasm, like it takes a lot of time and focus in like one area. Yeah.

But yeah, that's not how I feel about traditional porn is like I feel like it's I mean maybe it's not meant to be realistic. That's why because like I don't think it's realistic to do a zillion positions while you're having sex.

And but in the porn industry, maybe they're just trying to appeal to everyone, someone who is their favorite positions, doggie or whatever.

So and also they look cool, like visually they're stimulating. They might not actually feel really good in real life, but that's not always what porn is about. So selling the fantasy and jerking off to it. So it's all about the visual stimulation of it.

Yeah, well, it pornhub if you're listening, like I have like some stuff that I could tell you and like really make you guys some more money. So just let me know.

I'm just going to try to reverse the scene for us.

We'll pay with jillion dollars there, like show us what you mean and then like maybe we can if I can do it. Do you watch porn?

Yes, but I feel like sometimes I'm watching for like actual research purposes, like I know that look at me. But like, OK, now I have milk in my breasts and I know that some people are into that, but I have no idea what the people who are into that are looking for. So I like it was like, God, I hope I don't have to lose my search history because is not what I'm into.

But I had to, like, look up what people are looking for when they're watching lactation porn. And so I was doing research.

OK, I'm so intrigued. Lactation porn like do you, like, squeeze milk into their mouths or what is it?

I think people are interested in watching the act of someone else actually sucking the milk out of your boobs.

And to me, no, no shaming.

I'm not into that. I'm not into it.

But maybe because in my real life, like a baby's actually doing that to me, you know?

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I read a Forbes article. Yes, I was like stalking you like a little creep until three a.m. laying in my bed. Thanks. Or maybe masturbating, I don't know, just you're like, I get that joke every day.

Like, no, no one talks. I read in a Forbes article you made over a million dollars last year. What is your main source or stream of income?

One hundred percent like only France. I mean, I wouldn't say that's like ninety nine percent only fans, but it's like the whole thing.

I don't make any money off Twitter Twitters purely like just the way for me to market marketing plans and so is Instagram until I got deleted. So yeah. I mean the big social media helps you because you're not only fans give fans a lot of money, right?

Yes. You made fleshlight that it matches your vagina, right? Yeah.

So Fleshlight actually reached out to me and they were like, can we you and they mold mold in my vagina and my butthole has Atum tried it.

He told me his dick, which I like. I'm like, I don't believe you. But he was like, my dick is too big. It doesn't fit. Like whatever he's like.

I split it open like my dick is just like so big. But honestly, I was thinking about it. If I were to make a flashlight I would lokey tell the manufacturers to make my pussy like five times tighter. The inside is always the same.

So I don't think people know that, like, they mold the outside of your vagina. But the inside of the fleshlight is the same for everyone, for all the girls.

Oh, that was the most groundbreaking shit I've ever heard.

OK, so tight that I did not go into labor and I had a C section and when I had my postpartum visit, my O.B. looked inside me and was like, your cervix has never been dilated. You looked like you were never pregnant.

And I'm like, fuck everyone who said that my pussy was so loose that baby was going to fly out.

People are so fucking stupid when they make that comment. Like, I mean, I had a sex podcast. I talk about really raunchy shit I talked about for some. So I get the same shit like your vagina is like a hot dog down a hallway. Fuck that phrase is that's not how the anatomy works.

Like you can have a baby and still not be loose. You can have sex and still not be loose. It's it's just really obnoxious.

You can take fifty dicks and your vagina is not going to be loose like read a book people. Yeah. Yeah great. We just like went back to sex. But you are a business woman, you really are a genius.

You make the most money off only fans. I feel like especially during quarantine there are so many girls trying to get on the only fans train. Yeah.

Do you have like any tips for people like starting in only fans. Yeah.

I mean I feel like it's the same sort of tip that I would give someone who's just trying to get into social media, which is like, you know, make good content, take good photos, try to figure out what you can do to be on the explore page on Instagram and spareribs using the platform, but also like try to collaborate with other creators and don't fucking make an Instagram. I don't make can only fans if you don't have any fans, like it's just like I feel like it seems like a get rich quick scheme, but it's not.

And then your shit is out there. I mean a whole YouTube video about this because like literally every day is about only fans and you know, you don't need a lot of fans to be successful on only fans. You can have ten thousand fans and make a good amount of money that would support you if people did actually engage with the content and want to see you and what you're doing. But if you don't continue to make good content, then people are going to unsubscribe.

And then you might have a really good first month. But six months in, you have all your shit on the Internet and then no one is buying your content anymore. And the thing with being like a sex worker is that any platform could decide to take your social media from you at any time. Case in point, me and then what are you going to do? So I think it's something that requires a lot of careful consideration. And as much as I'm like so pro sex worker and I would want to help anyone who I can, I also want to advise people to be cautious and not just the like.

If they do this, they're going to be rich. And that's the end of story.

I think that's like really fucking good advice. And what type of content do you post? Because it's not just all like porn, it's not just all like you having sex, right?

I mean, it's mostly sexual. Like I post photos and then I'll do a lot of solo videos and then I'll do videos with Adam and then I'll do threesomes and then I'll I'll do a lot of girly girl stuff. But I mean I mean, I made like a video one time showing how I like prepared for anal, but it's still sexual in nature, even though it's not like someone might not be. Like actually jerking off to it, it's you know, I mean, I can assure you that there were so people jacking off to it, like you would be shocked what they would they, like, jagoff off to cleaning out your asshole.

That's so hot. OK, tell me if I read this incorrectly. You did like a try on Hall of Lingerie. Was that on your only fans was on YouTube.

I've done it on YouTube. I've actually done on PornHub too. So what I did was like filmed myself changing in and out of the clothes for my YouTube video because I had a prandial and then I just like left in the parts where I was changing and posted on PornHub. But it was actually really successful, which I didn't understand. But you'd have to ask a dude like why it's so interesting because I found it to be boring as fuck.

Wait, that is so fucking interesting. So like on your YouTube, it just showed you would like the clothes and then maybe hinting the underwear was coming off and then you were like PornHub has like the full thing.

I was just like reviewing the clothes because that's what I had to do as part of the brand deal. And then I don't know, I really didn't do much in the PornHub version. I just like kind of left the whole video unedited, I guess, and then still continued to review the clothes. And it was like millions of views. And I just find that to be so strange.

Wheat that is so bizarre and so interesting. And I feel like if you're like kind of trying to, like, head into doing it, only fans or something of that nature like that could be a good just little like, you know, dipping your toes in at your feet.

Yeah. Yeah, definitely. No, I think that's a good intro.

Totally. One hundred percent. OK, Lenna. So I do want to quickly before we get into listener questions, because we are kind of running out of time. You are a new mom. You had a baby three months ago. Congratulations you on your new baby girl, Parker, which I fucking love that name, by the way. That's so cute.

Thank you. I watched your birth vlog. My God. And you were planning on having like a stay at home birth and then you had to have a C-section. Yes. And you documented it. And I have to ask you how the fuck you were able to do that, because I feel like if I were in the hospital, I would tell my boyfriend to get the fucking camera out of my fucking face before I, like, shatter the screen honestly without first all the way I looked to that video, I probably should have told them to turn the fucking camera off.

But I feel like that in those moments, I just like, couldn't care. I was so over everything. By the time I went to the hospital, she was 19 days past her due date like shit.

I tried everything to get her out.

And then by the time I gave in and went to the hospital, they were treating me like an alien, like I didn't want to be there because they'd never let women go past due at the hospital.

They induce you. And so everyone was treating me like a fucking science project. They'd never seen someone like me in their life. And I was just so over everything I couldn't care anymore. And I mean, I was like kind of high on the epidural, but like, I wasn't having a good time because I was super allergic to the epidural.

So I was like, just really fucking oh, my skin for how much I scratched myself. And then when she was born, I was like I was out of it. It was I was really not like totally there in the way that you would probably be there.

Yeah. So, yeah, I don't know. I feel like maybe if I was feeling all of the pain of it then I probably would've been like to the fucking camera off right now.

Right. So pretty much like you were kind of out of it because you were like on drugs and there was so much going on that you were just like, whatever I have to give in to all the shit that I wasn't expecting to happen because I was supposed to have a home birth with, like a birth photographer, my midwife and my doula.

And like, you know, I just one day I had to get rid of every expectation I had because I had already lost so much of it. Right.

Well, that's why you have a successful YouTube page and like, I don't have fucking shit, so I applaud you practice.

That's what I used to do because I used to hate being on camera. It scared the shit out of me, but I would just log some days and just like just never put it out.

There's something about it that just feels so natural to me. But it is a natural and it's like weirdly cringe or feels narcissistic. And then you kind of have to like, throw all your thoughts about that out the window and just fucking do it if you're going to be like a content creator, you know.

Yeah.

I have to ask, what is pregnant sex like?

I do feel like it was like hotter, like I was wetter all the time. You're just like constantly wet when you're pregnant. It's just like I did my fucking water break. No, I'm just dripping wet. Oh.

And I do feel like I was horny or I feel like I had one of the best orgasms when I was pregnant. And I don't think it's because we necessarily, like, changed what we were doing.

It's just like whatever was going on with my hormones, just like made it feel better.

Right. But towards the end you feel like a huge lump. And it's not easy to move around and you're kind of just like me, so the baby comes out. Hurry up, please.

Which obviously didn't work because you're forty two weeks pregnant.

OK, Lina, let's quickly answer some of my listener questions. This first one I'm about to read is fucking wild, and I am so excited for you to tell me what you think about it.

Hi, Sophia. I love you and love your new show. I will die right into the reason I'm writing today. I have a cum fantasy. I am obsessed with my fiance's cum. And when we have sex, I'm fantasizing the entire time about him coming inside me every hole and all over me. I would like him to come nonstop while we are fucking. Unfortunately, this is not a realistic expectation since he can't produce this much. Come, I discussed this fantasy with him and I propose we try to come fast.

I want to masturbate a few times a day, save up his cum and then dump it all over me while we are having sex. I want this to be as hygienic as possible. If you have any advice, let me know.

OK, so I feel like I just put it in the freezer cube tray like where the ice goes against every single little one.

But then like she would have to let go defrost it. Right. She will fall on the counter. I'm just saying this because it just came to me, not because I've actually done anything like this.

Like, you know, you see people like make little concoctions in their little ice trays. And I kind of feel like this would be a Pinterest hack for her. Oh, my God.

Wait, that would be like, so fucking stupid to talk of it. Have you ever heard of this, like, fetish?

No, but I can't imagine that it's that strange because. You know, there's like blobbing porn where it's like one girl, 20 dicks, she's doing a blowjob and then everyone's waiting till the end where she gets like all the come on her.

And I feel like that's like, oh, that's a visual I've never really heard of, like a girl. No one's ever told me, like, this is what I want. But I could see how that's hot.

Yeah, I could too. I mean, I think there's something really hot about like a guy coming. She's Mussad smell. Oh yeah. Unless it smells. I don't know if I actually there was one guy that like his cum smelled and like I don't even know how that's possible, but whatever.

I agree with you Lenna. I think girlfriend put it in the freezer. I was going to say refrigerate it under no circumstances, like leave it out on the counter. I think we're talking about it as if it's like produce or like meat. It's like you cannot leave chicken thawing on the fucking counter like it needs to on the fridge.

Preset for sure. Freezer. OK, you say freezer. I, I agree with you. Next question three, some advice. So we like kind of covered this, but this girl said my boyfriend, I was so bored sexually and we want to try a threesome. I have no idea where to start. How do I go about finding a girl? Is there an app for that? And when we find her, how do we initiate sex?

So it's not awkward.

So I looked into this a little bit and I think like any fucking dating app, like even if it's Tinder, like you really if you match with a girl, you could probably just like message her and see if she's into that. However, there are apps three like the number three fun you k i n case.

Oh that that's I kind of like four kings and fetishes. You could go there seeking arrangements. I've seen the seating arrangements will like have couples on there that are like looking for a third.

I think just being open and honest about what you want. And I feel like there's all sorts of people looking for all sorts of things on dating apps and it's not that weird or taboo to try it.

I completely agree. This is our last question. This is not sex related. Hey, Sofia. So I have recently gained a lot of weight and even more during quarantine. A big issue I'm having is while using dating apps while larger, I have a shit ton of anxiety leading up to the date. I notice now that I'm larger and sometimes it gets so bad and I'm so worried. They're thinking I can't fish them, even though I do look like my pictures.

I've even canceled dates last minute because of this. Love the show and I'm so proud of you. If she is not like wanting to lose weight, I think it's really just understanding that everybody is beautiful. That sounds so fucking cliche, but it's really so true. You kind of just have to, like, embrace all stages of your body, like your body goes through changes. And if you're only going to feel confident and good when you're the perfect way, you are going to set yourself up for like a very not hard life, but like, difficult, you know what I'm saying?

Yeah, I think about that all the time because it's like, you know, now I'm in my postpartum body and like your body changelog. Do you have a baby's like I think my metabolisms change. I'm not going to lose weight the way I did when I was like twenty. I'm going to be thirty this year. But so, like, kind of just realizing that and like think about like why is it so important? But it is important because obviously, like she said, like people treat you differently when you look bigger or when you look different, you know.

So I feel like yeah, if she wants to lose weight, like I would advise just like do it the totally healthy way is good and exercise and, you know, be reasonable about your goals and how fast you want to lose the weight because like, you try to rush into it, it's just going to backfire.

But at the same time, how does she gain confidence to go on a date with someone? And why is she canceling her dates? I don't know what to say about that, really. I'll be honest.

First of all, I think sometimes you have to rip off the Band-Aid show up to the date. Absolutely. I don't I don't condone, you know, alcohol use before, like anything. You're nervous for persay, but like, if you want to take a shot or two, anything else, relax you meditation, like just show up to the day, because if she's just sitting at home and she's too scared to go, she'll never know.

I personally feel like I benefited from going on a lot of first dates.

I like to figure out what I liked and people what I didn't like and people and I feel like that it doesn't matter how you look like you should you should be getting that practice in. I'm like figuring out what you don't like so that when you find someone that makes sense for you, you know, you can leave like 30 minutes of the day if you want.

You don't even want to be with the guy that is not going to be in. You are not physically attracted to you. So, like, fuck gum and maybe work a little bit on some self care and self-love, that's what I would say, because I am fucking Oprah.

All right. OK, Lenno, this was so amazing. I feel like I've learned so much and I want to go Google fifty thousand things. Where can they find you?

I am one of the plug on Twitter, YouTube reline of the plug on Instagram. My only fans is only fans of the plug. I still think Sophia should make it. Only fans if you ever want any advice on how to work it here for you. Thank you so much. If I do decide to make one, you are going to be like my first call. So don't even worry about that. Sloots, I love you so much and I will talk to you next week.