Hi, you're listening to Ted Talks Daily, Amelie's who we are in the midst of a real reckoning this summer over racial injustice in the U.S. and in other countries. It's highlighting how when it comes to social issues, those in the majority often stay quiet about displays of prejudice and stereotyping. So here's an idea to consider.

What if white people spoke up and helped lead the charge for racial equity in her 2019 10 mile high?

Talk equity advocate Anita Moseby Tyler explains the power of unlikely allies to inspire real change.

You can ask anyone you want and they will tell you that they are sick and tired of fighting for justice, people of color and members of the LGBT community are tired of carrying the burden of speaking up and stepping up even when they're being silenced and pushed back down.

And white allies and CIS allies are tired, too tired of being told they're doing it wrong or that it isn't even their place to show up at all. This fatigue is impacting all of us.

And in fact, I believe we won't succeed until we approach justice in a new way.

I grew up in the middle of the civil rights movement in the segregated South.

As a five year old girl, I was very interested in ballet. It seemed to be the five year old girl thing to do.

In the 1960s. My mother took me to a ballet school.

You know, the kind of school that had teachers that talked about your gifts and talents, knowing that you'd never be a ballerina.

When we arrived, they said nicely that they did not accept Negroes.

We got back in the car as if we were just leaving a grocery store that was out of orange juice.

We said nothing, just drove to the next ballet school. They said, we don't accept Negroes.

Well, I was confused and I asked my mother why they didn't want me.

And she said, well, they're just not smart enough to accept you right now and they don't know how excellent you are.

Well, I didn't know what that meant. But I was sure it wasn't good because I could see it in my mother's eyes. She was angry and it looked like she was on the verge of tears. Well, I decided right then and right there that ballet was dumb.

You know, I had lots of experiences like that along the way.

But as I got older, I started to get angry and not just angry at the outright racism and injustice.

I was angry at people that stood by and didn't say anything like why didn't the white parents in that ballet school say, that's wrong, let that little girl dance or what?

Why didn't the white patrons in the segregated restaurant say, hey, that's not right, let's have family eat?

Well, it didn't take me long to realize that racial injustice wasn't the only place that people in the majority were staying quiet.

When I sit in church and hear some homophobic comment being disguised as something scripture, while I'd say I'm sorry, why aren't the heterosexual church goers disrupting this nonsense?

Or in a room filled with boomers and Gen Xers who started degrading their millennial colleagues as being spoiled, lazy and overconfident. I'd say I'm sorry. Why isn't someone my age saying stop stereotyping?

I was used to standing up on issues like this, but why wasn't everyone else, my fifth grade teacher, Mrs. Macfarlane, taught me that justice requires an accomplice, not just anyone will do.

She said, we need unlikely allies if we want to see real change happen.

And for those of us experiencing injustice up front, we need to be willing to accept the help because when we don't, change takes too long.

I mean, imagine if heterosexual and gay people had not come together under the banner of marriage equality or what if President Kennedy just wasn't interested in the civil rights movement? Most of our major movements in this country might have been delayed or even dead if it weren't for the presence of unlikely allies.

When the same people speak up in the same ways they've always spoken up the most will ever get or the same results over and over again. You know, allies often stand on the sidelines waiting to be called up.

But what, if unlikely, allies let out in front of issues like what have black and Native American people stood in front of immigration issues?

Or what if white people led the charge to end racism? Or what if men led the charge on pay equity for women? Or what if heterosexual people stood in front of LGBTQ issues?

And what if able bodied people advocated for people living with disabilities?

You know, we can stand up for issues, weigh in and advocate even when it seems like the issue has nothing to do with us. And actually those are the issues that are most compelling.

And sure, people will have no idea why you are there, but that's why those of us facing injustice must be willing to accept the help.

You know, we have to fight injustice with a consciousness of grace.

When white guys stand up to fight for the liberation of black and brown people, black and brown people will have to be willing to accept their help. And I know that's complicated, but this is collective work and it requires everyone to be all in.

One day when I was at kindergarten, our teacher introduced us to this beautiful, tall white lady named Miss and I thought she was the prettiest white lady I had ever seen.

Well, if I can be honest with you, I think it was the first time we'd ever seen a white lady in our school ever.

Myths and stood in front of us and she said she was going to start teaching ballet classes right there at our school and that she was proud to be our dance teacher.

It was on real all of a sudden. I didn't think ballet was dumb anymore.

You see, what I know now is Miss Anne was fully aware that the white ballet schools would not accept black girls.

She was incensed by that. So she came to the black neighborhood to start teaching the dance classes herself. And, you know, it took love and courage for her to do that.

And where there was no justice, she just built it, we all survived because we stood on the shoulders of our black ancestors, we all thrived because Miss Anne was an unlikely ally.

You know, when you add your voice and your actions to situations that you don't think involve you, you actually inspire others to do the same myth and inspired me to always be on the lookout for situations that weren't about me, but where I saw injustice and inequality happening.

Anyway, I hope she inspires you, too, because to win the fight for equality, we all need to speak up and stand up.

We will all need to do that and we will all need to do that even when it's hard and even when we feel out of place, because it is your place and it is our place.

Justice counts on all of us. Thank you.

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