Hello, everyone. Welcome back to another episode of Call Her Daddy. It is Alex, your father, back at it again. I'm really, really, really excited to flash back to this episode. As you guys know, we're doing a little flashback Friday from the past three years of my episodes on Spotify. Okay, so Daddy Gang. Anita may have been one of my all-time favorites ever. I remember her walking into the studio, and the energy was absolutely Absolutely insane. We had met at an event the prior week, and we hit it off. We were talking about all these sexual things together, and I was like, Wait, why are you literally the best person ever? She is an absolute icon, pop star. She knows how to twerk. She knows how to talk. She talks about all the sex, relationships, everything you need to know. You want to know how to give a good blow job? Anita. You want to know how to be good in bed? Anita. You want to know how to sing? Anita. You want to know how to twerk? Anita. You want to know how to be a girls girl? Anita. Every single thing, this woman just embodies confidence in a way that I just was enamored with her.

So Daddy Gang, get ready. Anita is a sexual, fun, insane episode. And yes, she does teach us how to twerk. So prepare, get ready, sit back, relax. This is a perfect episode to kick off a Friday with a little sexy time with my girl, Anita. What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper with Call Her Daddy. Anita, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Thank you. Daddy Gang, we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all. And I'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anita is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. Billboard magazine has called her more influential than Beyoncé, Rihanna, and Lady Gaga. What the fuck? No big fucking deal, Anita.

In Brazil, maybe.

I don't know. International.

I don't know.

You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for best new artist. Congratulations. Thank you. It is like your career is incredible, and watching you grow has just been so fucking cool. But I know you from when we met at the Baby to Baby Gala. Yeah. I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event, because I know we met briefly, but we were sitting next to each other. I was dying. You are so funny. You're so charismatic. You have a personality. What do you remember from that event?

I think our table was so fun. We had very fun people with us, and we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction. You know? Dinner?

I don't think. Yes. Anita and I are like, we meet, and two seconds later, Anita is like, so how does your vagina smell? And I was like, hey, girl, what's up? We're like, let's talk about our butt holes in our vaginas as a corporate Spotify person is sitting directly to our left. My favorite was also when... Not that everyone knows the Baby to Baby gala, but so there's angels that work at the event. Oh my God. Anita is chilling, and now it's towards the end of the night. People have left, but people are saying, So Anita is like, No, girl. I got an early morning. I'm going to dip out. And I'm like, Totally get it. I'll be leaving soon. So everyone in the crowd is sitting, and they're like, Hey, can all the angels stand up? To give people context, it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go, All the angels stand up. Anita just starts standing up. She's like, Bye, everyone. I got to go. And it's a dead, silent room. And she was like, Wait. And I'm like, Anita, it's only the angels.

It's worse than that. It's worse than that. Tell us. In my mind, I thought she was calling all the women angels. Stand up all the women. And I thought, oh, the women was going to stand up.

That's why I stood up. And you're like, this is the perfect moment for me to sneak out the back door. Only 11 people of 300. And Anita literally sits back down. She's like, mother fuck. That was terrible. It was a great moment. Let's go back through your life a little bit to get to know you better. What was life like where you grew up outside of Rio de Janeiro?

What was it like? So people don't think when they see me or they see my songs and whatever, they don't imagine that I come from the communities. It could be called the guido a little bit. It's like the favelas. When you go to Brazil, there's communities, places that the houses really close to each other. It's a really humble place, simple. I come from a place like that. I was born and raised in a place like that. My mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother. So we all see everything with this beauty and playing in the streets, things like that, very in the hood. But she always told us that a way for us to leave there It's not that we don't like there, but we all want to leave because we want a better life. So she always said that the only way to get out would be studying. And we always did the best we could, studying and doing all we could. I always loved music. I started doing music, but also studying everything. I was my own manager for 10 years.

Me and my brother, we were partners. So it was a whole job, not only from arts, but also business.

When and at what age did you realize your love for performing? Oh, no.

Since I was a little kid, I was already singing. And when I was three years old, four or five, I was already singing. And my family used to ask me these questions, What are you going to be when you grow up? Whatever. And I always used to be like, I'm going to be famous. I'm going to be an artist. I'm going to have a pool in my house. Blah, blah, blah, blah. That was literally me.

So you always knew?

Always. I would pass by some places that I knew it was TV places, studios or whatever. I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say, You guys are going to see me. I'm going to work here, blah, blah, blah. Nine years old. I was Always this personality crazy.

I love that so much, though, because I think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you need to get.

But I was sure. I was sure. It was not that I said, Oh, I want to be. I was sure. I would tell my family where I was going to live, how my house would be, the TV shows that we're going to be, the people we're going to meet. I would be like that when I was a kid. I could literally see and dream about this, and My family was like, Okay, because it was a very humble life. So they would never prospect that in my life. Totally. So they would be like, Okay. And I was like, You guys don't understand. I'm not saying I I want to. I'm going to be there.

There's no option. It's happening. Do you guys want to come along for the ride or not? Exactly. Who were some artists that you admired growing up?

Mariah Carey was my first one. She was my first diva. And I had the I had an opportunity to tell her that, and it was crazy. And be on a phone with her for hours, that was also crazy. For me, she was the number one, forever. And then Rihanna. And now I I'm sponsored by Fenty. I did the Fenty show. I do like, photoshoots for Fenty. It's crazy.

Even when you're saying that, does it still feel surreal, like how much success you've had?

I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to us, they push us to think that we need always more, more and more and more. And I think nowadays with the Internet, it's an possible for you to reach everything, everyone, every time. You got to be happy also. You got to take time for yourself also. So I think that this speech that I used to have for my life for many years, you can be more. You can do more. Never stop. Never give up. I was like that. And when I was like that, I couldn't see those things that happened in my life. I would be like, Okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Okay, yeah. I loved it, but I couldn't I look and be like, Wow. Nowadays, for me, it's like, Yeah, we can definitely give up. We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep. We don't need all the money in the world. The money doesn't mean happiness. As many number ones you get in your life, that's not going to make you happier or not. For me, it's like every single thing that happened in my life, I learned how to stop and be like, Wow, look at what I did.

This is so... And then live that moment again. I got to this reflection because last year, I got super sick, right? Super sick. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't go upstairs in my house. I couldn't do anything. Literally, for three months, I was like, and I thought literally that I was going to die. It was a whole thing. And then I was in the hospital for so long. And then I was like, you know what? I was just working, working working, to reach everything and thinking, I still didn't have enough. And now I'm here. And what did I get from life? Did I enjoy it? Did I have fun? Did I do nothing? And the thing that I wanted the most was to travel, to have more free time. But today is too much. For you to be successful, you got to be on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Spotify. It's so many things that you got to do. We're just one human being.

It's too much.

How can we do all of that? It's a lot. So I'm not up to waste my life searching for things anymore because I'm almost 30 now. I'm 29. And I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years. But now I just want to rest. If I get more success, amazing. If no, amazing.

It's okay. Your birth name is actually Larissa. Do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita?

So my name, Larissa, is very common in Brazil. Anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anita. And I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that... She was like an 18-year-old character in this series. She used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl. She liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be. Today, I want to be crazy. Tomorrow, I want to be sexy. And then I want to be pretty. And then I want to be princess. And I was like, that's so cool because I don't like to define myself and be like, Okay, I'm this. I'm so many things. I like to discover every Every day, a new me. And I think people have the necessity of defining you and be like, Oh, she is that. And I like to be all.

What is the difference between Larissa and Anita? Oh, my God.

It's huge. It's It's huge. I started my career 12 years ago. Here in America, I am a best new artist. I'm joking. But I am nominated as best new artist for the Grammys because it's a new career. Started from the zero. I left everything and I came to start here again. But 12 years ago, when I started there, I created this character because me, Larissa, I'm very shy, to be honest. I'm very insecure. I don't like going out. I I don't like socializing. I don't like doing anything. I'm so the opposite of who I am when I'm in this character. When I created this character, Anita, I wanted a person, a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy, people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other. That's what I wanted to do.

How many languages can you sing in?

I can sing in five languages. It's because I sing in Portuguese, Spanish, English, Italian, and French, but French, just a little bit. I speak just a little bit, and Italian, a little bit.

How the fuck did you learn all these languages?

I'm going to give a very good example right now of Larissa and Anita, right? Okay. So when I go to interview as Anita, you got to deliver entertainment, right? Yeah. So people ask me, How did you learn so many languages? I say, With boyfriends. Whenever I wanted to know a new language, I would date a different guy and different accents. But in reality, I had, which is boring, the reality, Larissa, I hired different teachers from different places of the world, and I used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments I had. So I used to get two hours of glam every day. I would be studying during this two hours. The teacher would be telling me, and I would be studying for these two hours.

I fucking love your honesty of like, let me be so clear. Anita is like, Bitch, if I wanted to learn Italian, I'm going to date an Italian man.

I'm going to fuck an Italian guy.

I feel like, actually, I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me. Do you ever worry that now being so honest about the two characters that people will be like, Wait, why? What the fuck? This isn't the real you?

No, because I think it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that I use my character to break rules, to break boundaries, and things that limit us, women, to do. All women, women that wants to be free in sex, women that wants to be free in work, whatever. I like this character. It brings to us self-esteem, confidence, and something to look at. Even I do when I'm myself, Larissa, nowadays, I look at me as a character and I be like, okay, I think I can get that from Anita and be a little bit more confident about myself. It's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like, okay, and understand the actor is another thing. But they don't understand that musicians, singers, they do the same thing. We do the same thing. There's no way we're bringing the on self, the person that we are at home, the person that we are in family, and bring this person on stage. It's not entertainable. It's not different enough for people to look and be like, oh, this is special.

Who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song?

Snoop Dogg.

That is.

For sure. Because I think him and Cardi B. Because they are so funny. Snoop Dogg is very simple, humble, and he's like... Everything for him is a vibe. It's all about if he likes you, if he likes your energy. He has something I don't know. He sees someone and he feels the energy, and then he decides if he likes or not. I feel. I think so. That's what I think from him because I just feel like I can hug him and be there safe forever. I I think he's one of the coolest guys. And Cardi B, she's just funny, good energy, best energy, high level.

I love that. I was reading the list. I'm like, Pharrell, Missy Elliott, Snoop Dogg, Rita Ora, Cardi B, Souti, Becky G.

I'm like, Beck is one of my best friends. Missy Elliott was great energy, too. It was so good.

It's a lot. So good. Okay, Anita. You're also known for your dancing, okay?

Yeah.

The Anita challenge went viral on TikTok, which I remember just watching these videos and being like, one, how is this not getting censored on TikTok? I can't even fucking curse in my TikTok. Meanwhile, people are doing the challenge, and it's incredible watching it. Can you explain How twerking in Brazil is different than twerking in America?

Because it's not even only twerking, it's parting in general. I think here in America, people in the parties, they are more concerned about who they're with, where they're going, what they're wearing. It's like the table situation. In Brazil, there's no table situation. You go to the party, there's no table. Everyone is just one place, mess, together, just to find out. We love dancing. We love dancing. Sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing. We just want to dance. Sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over. They just sing a different melody, just same words always. And we love it. We just want to dance. We just want to listen and dance.

What is it like being known for the way that you dance, though? Are you so proud of yourself?

It's crazy because in Brazil, it started this fever of like, oh, we're going to do Anita moves, Anita moves.

Okay, now we need you to twerk. Okay. Okay, so this is going to be iconic. I think people will fucking love it. Is this the wrong surface? Oh, my God. Okay.

Do you want We have music?

We have music. No, it doesn't need to. Okay. So you just go like you're going to do a push-up, right? Okay. And then you just do a circle. But basically, you're doing this within me. Okay. You focus here. What? Wait. That must take a lot of upper body. You're doing this, but in this position. Anita. Oh, my God. I could only dream. No, but your- This other one is hard, though.

When you do a circle, but you stop in the middle, so you do it quick. This one is harder. It's going to be different. I feel so creepy. I'm literally like,.

Holy shit. Dude, that was so good. I am inspired now to go home and secretly practice it, but not letting anyone know I'm practicing it. But I will be working on it. And next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out. And you Did you incorporate these into your sex?

No. No. It's just a dance. When the guy asks me to dance, I go like, Dance first. He's never going to fucking dance. So I'm like, What the fucking question is that?

Wait, you're like, I'm not performing. Exactly.

I get silly.

It's so annoying.

I'm like, Dance first. You dance, I dance.

Are you currently single or in a relationship?

I'm single, completely single, and not looking for anything. I love it. And so happy with myself. And I don't have sex in months. So many months. I don't even remember the last time I had sex, to be honest with you.

Are you just masturbating?

No. I'm selling it. Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like, Okay, this one deserves to come here. I didn't find it yet.

You're spending time alone.

But I was crazy before. I used to fuck even one person that would cross me on the street, I'll be like, You, come here. Stop. I would be like that.

How did you get that confidence? Just go up to people.

Because I was living Anita 24/7 of the time.

Do you have a type of guy, girl?

No. Breathing and alive. I don't know. There's something inside that comes, and this something, for some reason, I can feel it, and then I'm like, So there's no type. I can literally show you three different ex-boyfriends, and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people?

I love that, though. What do you think is something that you're most attracted to in a person?

I think when they are funny, I love when they're You make me laugh. I'm like, I love it. It's so good. When they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way. I like when they are aggressive in a good way, not like, abusive relations.

Have you found yourself in any abusive relationship?

Oh, yeah. Terrible. But I need it just once and then never again. In two months, after this one I had for a year and something, I can look if I'm starting with someone. In one month, I can feel it's abuse, and I'm like, out.

Can you try to give... If people are listening, they're like, Fuck, I think I may be in one. Do you have any signs or things to look for?

Yeah, because in the beginning, they let you feel very uncomfortable. And then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying. They don't say you are less or not. It's like they point things in other people that they are actually talking about you, but they pretend they're not. And then, oh, honey, I'm almost a psychologist. I look and I'm like, okay. And then I start bringing shit over for themselves to think.

So you mean they'll point something out in someone in a room Yeah, for sure. That relates to you or is what you don't have.

Or just say, you see that's so bad. Oh, my God. To guide you how to not be.

Are you usually the one breaking up with people, or they...

I am. I need that to change, though. I think that's why I'm waiting so much. I want things to be different.

Got it. What is a deal-breaker for you in a relationship?

When I feel I don't like that. I think when I feel suffocated is the number one thing. When the guy doesn't let you breathe in jealousy for no reason. Too much. Come on. Or needy. I need you. I want to talk to you 24/7. Come on, give me a break. Give me a time to breathe.

Right. There's nothing more unattractive, which I get it, we're all insecure. But being in a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship. It's like such a turn off. You're like, can you just get into therapy, muster the courage?

Or when the guy is selfish, he tries to say he's doing things for you, but he's actually doing for him. He doesn't want to be alone. He is needy. He doesn't want to stand with himself alone. But he says that, oh, no, I'm doing this for you. Come on, you're not. I want to be fucking alone for a little time.

Can you give advice to women listening that are like, okay, wait, Anita, you have not been with someone. You're not hooking up with people. How are you so comfortable being alone?

So everything started, and I hope people don't need that to change lives, when I got sick. That was like when I was in bed thinking I was going to die, I started to look over all the things in my life, and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again. It's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore. Please, God, I'm down. I'm open. I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things, and I want to do differently. I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love with me or because I don't want to lose him. I want to have sex because I feel like doing it because I feel like this guy deserves this queen going. I don't know. And before, I didn't used to like staying by myself. I used to just need friends every time in my house, friends, every time I needed people. And now I don't need No, but I can be alone like this for days. You know, cook my own food and be like, Life is beautiful.

I'm just here chilling. And I feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence? What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to? What we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it? I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked. I'm just saying right now, I don't feel like... Maybe next month, I feel like fucking thousands of people again. Just now, I just feel like... Not right now. Is it worth it?

I remember I went through almost... I've never said this. I almost went an entire year in my 20s where I did not have sex, and I was totally happy.

I'm so happy.

It was just a reclaiming moment I'm getting it for myself of like, I need to just figure my own shit out, and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to figure it out.

I want, but it needs to be a great penis. It needs to be a penis plus a A brain plus a tongue plus so many things. It needs to be a mix because it's a lot of work to have sex. For me, it's a lot of work. I like to put a show on.

Oh, you do? Can you Give us some tips, Anita. If the girls are like, What do you mean put a show on? Give us some tips. What's your go-to?

Because I like to enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm like, dancing and performing. Is it a deal-breaker for you if a guy is not good at eating you out? I teach. I love you. I would teach. I would say, Come on, let me say something. Do this, do that. I don't like when they go like this. They put the tongue very hard and they go like... And it's like you go like, right. Oh, my God. I don't like that.

It's just a little slithering and you're like, it's so bad.

These days... Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with guys this whole time. With girls, I did have. So I was teaching this friend of mine how to eat a pussy these days, and she was like, oh, it's that easy? And I was like, yeah. I came in three minutes. She came in, too.

Wait, you were practicing on each other? Yeah. And you're just friends? Yeah. There was no sexual connection.

Oh, No, I was just teaching her.

She wanted to- You just took off your pants. Here's my vagina. Let me teach you. Fuck. Okay, we need some tips. Without taking off your pants and us doing it, do you have any one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just help achieve more organisms? Oh my God.

I will say, first of all, for girls, for whatever, guys, girls, to eat girls. Personally, I think it's different for each girl. I don't know. The things I like can be different from the things other girls like. Me, personally, when I'm doing that with a girl, I go nice and slow. I do circles, and then I just do up and down, and I do side by side, but slow and wet, and not like you're eating a pasta. It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold, and you I cannot freeze your tongue if you're going to... You're going to freeze your tongue. You're going to feel like, ice cold. I just go nice and slow, and then I put a finger on it. I don't put the finger on it like,. I just put it nice and slow, small movements and just move. Then I don't go in the crazy side by side. I just go in a smooth, keep going with the flow. And the girl is going to guide you. And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina. You don't need to go all the way down there.

And it's not because the woman squirt that she came. There was this time, this guy made me squirt 20 times, and I was not coming. I was like, This doesn't mean something is happening.

Men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt, look at me in the eyes with this camera.

Stop. The next day, it hurts.

Oh, it hurts so bad.

Come on.

I think sometimes men forget, would you want us, like jackhammering your dick. No. You like when it's very wet and you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that also dry. You would have rug burn. Same for us. Okay? Same for us.

There is also, with guys, what I do... I'm going to try to give an example. I always use oil when I can, when the guy is not full of... Because some guys are like, Oh, you're using the... I love using lubricant. Love it. And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job. Shut the fuck up. It's just more pleasing if you use lubricant. I put the lubricant. I'm going to teach you in this part. Okay? Okay. Here we go. I put the lubricant. And then I go like this. First of all. I go like this. And then this is one movement. And then you're going to do something. There's something you can do that they are not going to understand what you're doing. You could tell him to close his eyes. You're going to do this. You're going to hold here in the bottom, and you're going to do this. With the hands like this, you go down and circle, down and circle, down and circle, and then you go up and down, up and you do this, but up and down, up and down, and you do this. He's going to be like, What is happening?

But you should put lubricant on it. But you go like this. Don't do this. It's like, go up and down. Don't let it go. Just open up and down, and you do this, open and close, open and close, because then you're going to switch the pressure on it, and you're going to be like, What is she doing, though? But you got to It's a little lubricant on it.

Right. So you're massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base. Yeah, like this. Oh, that's magical.

And then they get super confused because it feels like a blow job, but it's not. And then for the blow job, I like using things that you put in your teeth to fix it. Plastic.

Yeah, the Invisalign.

Kind of. There's a bunch of brands. If you use the one down, just the one down. Life-changing. Really? Because it feels like you don't have teeth.

Anita.

It feels like you don't have teeth. Yeah, you can try.

I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were speaking.

You can ask them. Wow. They're going to feel like you don't have teeth. And just on the bottom. Because it's on the up, too, it's on the up, too. It's going to look weird. But if you use only on the bottom, they're going to feel like you don't have teeth because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here because it's not aggressive. It's smooth as the plastic.

This is an educational podcast today. Okay, we are educating the master.

But this is bad. They don't like it. The brand of the dentists, they will I'm trying to kill me. And they're going to say I'm bullshit because I try to say that in Brazil. Wow, they wanted to kill me.

I feel like they would love it. The sales are going to rock it.

They wanted to kill me. No, no, no. That's not the purpose. This is health for people to take care of the- Right.

While While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth. You're multitasking.

But people don't want to know about that. They don't do blow jobs. They just were born from your sand spirit. They came and so everyone is virgin.

Today, I am claiming that This is a great technique, and you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick. Nothing better.

I wouldn't say that. I'm not a dentist. I'm just saying, if you want to try, you try. If no, it's okay.

Totally. If you already have one, pop it in.

See how it works. Dancists hate me because I said that in Brazil. They hate me. Dentists? They do. Because I said it's good when you use it, but they hate it. They don't like that I said that.

They're the virgin dentists. They need to fucking relax. Have you ever been cheated on?

Once, when I was 19, 18.

How did you find out?

Oh my God, online. A fan told me. No. Oh, but twice. I was twice. Once was a fan told me. Second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it. I dreamed about a A lot of things that actually happened. So there was this one time I went to sleep. This boy, I lended my car to him. He didn't have a car. I lended my car to him. I was already a singer. I was performing somewhere else. He went to the place. And when I went to sleep, I literally went to... In my dream, I went to the club he was. I saw him kissing the girl. He was wearing blah, blah, blah, blah, blah scared of me. And I know I have these type of dreams. So I didn't tell him I dreamed. I said, Hi. A fan took a picture and sent me, You were with this girl. You were wearing blah, blah, blah. She was wearing blah, blah, blah. And then he was desperated saying, Yeah, I'm sorry. After months, I told him I dreamed it.

Have you ever got caught cheating?

No. I'm so smart. I am so smart.

How do you feel about sex on the first date?

I don't care. If I feel like I do. You just be yourself. And if he likes you, amazing. If he doesn't, it's because he's an asshole. Not that he's an asshole. He doesn't match you. And you just want him because of you think you need him for something, but you don't.

I love that advice. It's like, if you're good with yourself, who gives a fuck? You don't care. It doesn't matter.

There was this one time, this one guy I went on a date after it ended up not happening anymore. I was like, he doesn't want me, blah, blah, blah. And then after two weeks, when I was better with my therapy on point, and I was like, what the fuck I was doing with that guy? He makes snow, so he kisses terribly. His kiss, I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss? It was like, blah, blah, blah, blah, It was a terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was caring so much? It's just our fear of being rejected. It has nothing to do with the guy. We don't even care about the fucking guy. So true. It has nothing to do with the fucking person. The person sometimes is shitty, and we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected.

I also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head. Imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up, then now assess, would you actually like them? If you're coming from a place of like, They don't like me. I want them to like... That's just the chase, and we get addicted.

No, and then he texted me, and I was like, No, thank you.

You kiss like a frog.

I was like, No, today I have my mind so on point. No, thanks. Some people, you just go with them because your mind is not on point.

Right? And then you wake up one day and it's like, Hallelujah, what the fuck?

What I was doing with that You said it.

It's so crazy, too, when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy. He fucking sucked. Yeah, sometimes you just need to step away from it. How do you feel about sharing nudes?

I don't do that. You don't? No.

Is it just because you're nervous because you're a celebrity?

Before, yes. Nowadays, I just think it's... I think it's more sexy when you're wearing panties or something that is almost showing, but it doesn't show. I think it's more sexy. It plays more with the imagination, to be honest. I love that. We're having a hand on it. It's more... Even a picture of a dick, it's not beautiful Come on. Getting a picture of a dick? Let's be honest. It's not great. Let's be honest.

It's not great. You're like, oh, there it is.

When you see that guy naked, it's not hot. That's not hot.

What are you responding if a guy sends you a dick I pick.

I be like, I sent an emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, That's not it. I don't know. I don't feel anything with that.

What emoji?

The eyes. You know these two eyes that look like... That's it. It doesn't say anything. It's just not to leave the guy in red.

I love it, though, because then it could make him a little insecure of like, wait, hello? And you're like, That's all you got. That's all you got. Do you like sexting? Sex what? Sexting. Like texting sexting. No, me either.

All these things for me are just not... I like the real thing. Come on, come here.

Yes.

Not the sex, sex. I like the little horny talk, but not the sex, like I'm going to put my dick, put in your pussy, and bang it 20 times. I don't like that. I like the little horny thing.

What intimidates you in the bedroom?

What intimidates me? A huge, insanely huge dick trying to put in on my ass. That's very intimidating. When a dick is huge. It's so scary. And it's trying to go in your butthole. It's not good because you're so scared. This one guy I saw I was like, okay, I think I'm going to try here. And then his dick was so big, so big. And I was like, listen, I'm scared. And then he Why? And then I said, why? And then he said, this is something I don't think I can handle right now. At this moment of my life, I cannot handle this, I think.

Check back with me in a couple of months.

And then we just talked and cuddled, and it was it.

Have you ever had a threesome?

Oh, so many times.

Do you enjoy them?

I do. I think it's cool. I like it. I think it's more... But you have to be very aligned with everyone. You know? And yeah, I have threesome, four, six-sum. I had a boyfriend that used to like to switch couples and all.

Do you like the swapping thing? Yeah. Did you like it?

Yeah. Did He was very comfortable. And the people, he always let me pick. And it was just fun. It was very cool and respectful and fun.

Did you ever get jealous?

Oh, no. I'm not a jealous person. I'm jealous if I don't feel respected. If I don't feel respected, I'm not even jealous. I get angry.

I think that people that want to potentially do threesums or four-sums or or whatever, I think you need to know yourself before you do that. If you're a jealous person, don't fucking do it.

You can't do that.

Know yourself. Sometimes people, I think, do it for their partner. It's like, if you know your relationship, don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it.

Yeah, that's a big issue, to be honest. I think you need to be very friends with your partner to make sure. Also, there is this one time, and three times also with guys, but he wouldn't be with a just me. And he was super comfortable with that. He picked it, and it was cool. I liked it, to be honest. But he let me feel free with that.

Do you like to use toys in the bedroom?

I do. The guy got to be confident, though. I know. But I do. Me too. And that's why I did my line of perfume. When I did that, it was more about... I was doing concerts, and obviously, I'm performing for two hours. And Carnival is like four hours performing nonstop, even seven hours I've done. And when you finish, you don't smell good. Let's just have a real talk. A butthole smells like butthole. If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in a butthole and you smell it. It smells like butthole. It's a place that is there inside, locked in the dark, warm, hot, doing this. The whole date. This is going to sweat. It's like under your arms. There's no way. You're going to sweat. You're going to smell. It's there inside of your whole clothes. So I was like, I don't like it. I'm I'm obsessed with smell, right? I was like, I don't like smelling like sweat in my butt hole. And then a friend of mine told me, Oh, I'm going to do something for you. And she did this perfume, and I used it. And it was like, I was smelling great, even if I went to the Sahada Desert.

I did a music video there. It was 42 degrees celsius. It was so hot. I was wearing a jumpsuit of plastic. I was sweating like crazy, and I was still smelling good. I was like, You know what? I'm going to make this professional. And then I did it. And you just smell amazing. Your pussy and your butt hole smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with, and they put in their balls and the dick and the butt too. They smell great. For me, it's such a turn on. I love it. After I got this product, something I always done was to forget, Oh, my God, by accident, my panties at the place. So they smell so good. It smells insanely good, like strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy, obviously, when you leave, guys, pay attention. He will smell the panties. He will smell the panties. He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that your butt hole is on it. And it's not going to smell like butt hole. And it's just heaven. They always come back.

Anita, you're giving us everything we need today, okay? There's so few people that you can just have an open conversation like this, talk about your sexuality, your sex life. What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and they're like, new fans?

What would you want to say? I would say definitely what I said here. I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy. That's the artist I like to be about everything, not only sex, but I bring up subjects which is like, talk about my plastic sex surgeries, talk about sex, talk about poop, talk about things that we all do. For some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't. I don't understand what's the type of insecurity or I don't know, that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is this 24/7 glam.

Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft. You are running the show. You're your own manager. You do everything. I really respect you, and I cannot wait to see what you do next. And I can't wait for the new album and all the things. You deserve all of it. So thank you so much for coming on.

Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at home. I hope people like it, and I loved meeting you. You have great energy.

You do, too. Love you.