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Girls Gotta Eat

Why do guys just want to f*ck you once then stalk your Instagram forever? Should you ditch the apps and meet people in the wild? How do you get over a breakup when you feel like you're gonna die?

These are all topics discussed on Girls Gotta Eat -- a comedy podcast about dating, sex, and relationships co-hosted by Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg.

Anxiety Disorderville, Population Many Motherf*ckers feat. Kelsey Darragh

Girls Gotta Eat

  • 1.4K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 01:30:01

If there's one person who can speak on anxiety, depression, and panic with such humor, insight, and personal experience, it's Kelsey Darragh. We're so glad she joined us to discuss her mental health journey from therapy to misdiagnoses to meds to social situations to panic attacks. She shares what has worked for her, how to manage anxiety in a relationship (when you're the person with it or the partner trying to help), why and how she quit drinking, and more. And before Kelsey joins us, we're unpacking why guys turn down booty calls and/or friends with benefits situations. Enjoy! Follow Kelsey on Instagram @KelseyDarragh and check out her book Don't F*cking Panic. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for merchandise and show dates. Thank you to our partners this week: Calm: Get 40% off a premium subscription at calm.com/gge. Rory: Go to hellorory.com/gge to try the nightly defense for just $5. Candid: Go to candidco.com/gge + code GGE for your risk-free starter kit and $75 off. Earnest: Get a $100 bonus at earnest.com/gge. Terms and conditions apply. Visit earnest.com/licenses.

Be Your Own Rich Man feat. Money Coach Nicole Victoria

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  • 1.4K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 01:31:54

We're talking about moneeeey again! This time, we're joined by financial coach Nicole Victoria who shares a wealth of important knowledge and tips for shifting your mindset around money, making more of it, investing (and yes, for people who have no idea where to start), who to trust with your dollars, real estate investments, and more. We also discuss why A MAN IS NOT A PLAN (just saying it louder for the people in the back), and the importance of women having financial security. Plus, we have a recap of Ashley's date with the older man, an inadvertent roast by Rayna, and fresh recs. Enjoy! Follow Nicole on Instagram @nobudgetbabe and find more on her website. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Hello Tushy: Go to hellotushy.com/gge for 10% off. Bright Cellars: Visit brightcellars.com/gge for 50% off your first 6-bottle box. 21+, some state restrictions apply. Rory: Try out your personalized treatment for just $5 at hellorory.com/gge. Earnest: Get $100 bonus at earnest.com/gge. Terms and conditions apply. Visit earnest.com/licenses for a full list of licenses.

Finding Your Strength and Inner Beyoncé with Peloton's Tunde Oyeneyin

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  • 1.5K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 01:39:12

The positive vibes are off the charts in this episode with Peloton instructor, founder of S.P.E.A.K., and overall inspirational human Tunde Oyeneyin. She shares her fitness journey/body transformation, tips for finding the best workout for you and  staying motivated, and why your mind is your strongest muscle. Tunde also opens up about losing family members and how she healed and propelled herself to where she is today. And we're talking about Beyoncé, Rihanna, and why a red lip can improve your dating life. We're also sharing our thoughts on the Sex and the City reboot. Enjoy! Follow Tunde on Instagram @Tune2Tunde and learn more about S.P.E.A.K. at SpeakTunde.com. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Daily Harvest: Get $25 off your first box at dailyharvest.com, code GGE. Feals: Become a member at feals.com/gge and get 50% off your first order + free shipping. Function of Beauty: Go to functionofbeauty.com/gge to take your 4-part hair profile quiz and save 20% on your first haircare order. Ritual: Get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. 

Quitting Drinking and Getting Horny with Nikki Glaser

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  • 1.7K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 01:45:27

We're starting 2021 strong with the incomparable, hilarious Nikki Glaser and there's no holding back. We discuss her decision to quit drinking and how she did it, accepting and loving your looks in an appearance-obsessed culture, being DTF but the challenge of finding a guy who gets you horny enough, farting during sex, anal, new tips for Amazon style sex, and more. We also bring in Andrew Collin to chat about moving to St. Louis to live with Nikki and why he shaved his back beforehand, plus more off-the-rails topics like winter pussy vs. summer pussy. We're also catching up on Rayna's recent sexcapade and Ashley's big dating change for the new year. Hope you enjoy! Follow Nikki on Instagram @NikkiGlaser and check her website for more. Follow Andrew @AndrewTCollin. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Uqora: Get proactive about urinary tract health and 20% off at uqora.com/gge. Helix: Visit helixsleep.com/gge for up to $200 off your mattress + 2 free pillows. Hello Tushy: Go to hellotushy.com/gge to get 10% off + free shipping. Rory: Try out your personalized treatment for just $5 at hellorory.com/gge. 

The Truth About Marriage and Motherhood feat. Cat & Nat

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  • 1.6K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:32:37

We have the hilarious, refreshingly honest duo Cat and Nat join us to spit some real truths about motherhood and marriage -- everything from feeling lost as a new mom (which is what bonded them together) to why marriage isn't a fairytale (don't worry, they're both happily married). We're also discussing how Covid has changed them forever, how they balance a sex life with 7 kids between them, why you shouldn't look for a "best friend" in the person you marry, and their team of male strippers (spoiler alert: they've stripped for us, too). And we tell a story about something hilarious/embarrassing that happened to Rayna, Ashley recaps her latest date, and we have a slew of recs for you. Enjoy and happy holidays! Follow Cat & Nat on Instagram @catandnat and check out their website for more. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Dame: Get 15% off your first order at dameproducts.com/gge. Feals: Become a member at feals.com/gge and get 50% off your first order with free shipping. Nutrafol: Get 20% off at nutrafol.com with code GGE. FabFitFun: Use code GGE for $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com.

Glow Up and Show Up with Stylist Lillian Charles

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  • 1.5K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:46:54

It's long overdue, but finally here: Our STYLE episode! We have our friend and incredible stylist/professional hype girl Lillian Charles in the house to talk about all things clothes, closets, bodies, boobs, and more. She explains why "it's not your body, it's your clothes", gives life-changing advice for cleaning out your closet, tells us what the majority of women are doing wrong with their wardrobes, and shares tips for dressing for your body type (tall, short, plus-size, big-breasted, flat-chested, etc.) including the best brands to shop. We're also talking about dressing for dates AND sharing our listeners' submissions for the most ridiculous things guys have showed up wearing. And we're talking about mastur-hating and reminiscing on awkward "I Love You"s. Hope you enjoy! Follow Lillian on Instagram @LillianGrayCharles and see her offerings on her website. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: FabFitFun: Use code GGE for $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com. ShipStation: Get 60 days free at shipstation.com with code GGE (enter it at the top of the site where it says "Heard our ad?"). Quip: Go to getquip.com/gge and get your first refill free. Daily Harvest: Get $25 off your first box at dailyharvest.com with code GGE.

Glow Up and Show Up with Stylist Lillian Charles

Girls Gotta Eat

  • 1.6K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:46:51

It's long overdue, but finally here: Our STYLE episode! We have our friend and incredible stylist/professional hype girl Lillian Charles in the house to talk about all things clothes, closets, bodies, boobs, and more. She explains why "it's not your body, it's your clothes", gives life-changing advice for cleaning out your closet, tells us what the majority of women are doing wrong with their wardrobes, and shares tips for dressing for your body type (tall, short, plus-size, big-breasted, flat-chested, etc.) including the best brands to shop. We're also talking about dressing for dates AND sharing our listeners' submissions for the most ridiculous things guys have showed up wearing. And we're talking about mastur-hating and reminiscing on awkward "I Love You"s. Hope you enjoy! Follow Lillian on Instagram @LillianGrayCharles and see her offerings on her website. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: FabFitFun: Use code GGE for $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com. ShipStation: Get 60 days free at shipstation.com with code GGE (enter it at the top of the site where it says "Heard our ad?"). Quip: Go to getquip.com/gge and get your first refill free. Daily Harvest: Get $25 off your first box at dailyharvest.com with code GGE.

Voting for Progress feat. Elizabeth Warren

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  • 1.3K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:27:42

With such an important election nearing, we are dedicating an episode to it and welcoming the incomparable Senator Elizabeth Warren to chat with us about how to make a difference. We cover wealth disparity, how to improve the economy to work for everyone, childcare, student debt, and the importance of giving small businesses a fighting chance. We are also expressing our thoughts on the current political landscape and upcoming election, and sharing the ways our listeners are taking action. And we catch up on Rayna's "mom day" and the guy Ashley's brother won't let her date. We hope you enjoy! Follow Elizabeth Warren on Instagram @ElizabethWarren, and get your voting plan together at IWillVote.com. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Pretty Litter: Get 20% off with code GGE at prettylitter.com. Framebridge: Get 15% off your first order at framebridge.com with code GGE + free shipping. Helix: Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders for our listeners at helixsleep.com/gge. Nutrafol: Get 20% off at nutrafol.com with code GGE. 

Does Age Matter?

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  • 1.3K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:42:29

By popular demand, we're going deep on age gaps in relationships -- dating older, dating younger, the dynamics in your 20s vs. 30s vs. 40s, and the factors that come into play like sex, finances, maturity, wanting/not wanting children, and more. We're also discussing/praising our favorite famous cougars, and sharing the funniest things your parter did/said that emphasized your age difference. We're also catching up on Rayna's continued fitness journey and discuss the problem with weighing yourself constantly, and Ashley shares a crazy date story. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for tour dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Earnest: Get $100 cash bonus when you refinance your loan with  earnest.com/gge. Terms and conditions apply. Visit earnest.com/licenses for a full list of licensed states. Buffy: For $20 off Buffy bedding, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. LiquidIV: Get 25% off at liquidiv.com with code GGE25. HelloFresh: Get a total of $80 off your first month + free shipping at hellofresh.com/80gge, code 80GGE. 

What's Your Sexual Aura? feat. Mystic Michaela

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  • 1.8K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 02:01:07

Whew, this one got us feeling and reflecting. We were honored to chat with celeb aura reader and psychic medium Mystic Michaela, who explained what auras and aura colors are all about, read ours, and covered the attributes of the five colors so you can figure out which one you are and how it impacts your life. We also discuss the aura colors in the bedroom (Who has a sex checklist? Who's the most visual? Who has the freakiest fetishes?), and talk about astral dreams and twin flames. AND in a dramatic grand finale, Michaela reads the auras of our exes bases on photos alone and blows our minds. We also catch up on Rayna's latest thirst trap tip, Ashley's shocking vagina update, and give a Selling Sunset recap (among other recs). Hope you enjoy! Follow Michaela on Instagram @MysticMichaela, and check out her podcast Know Your Aura with Mystic Michaela. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for merchandise, show tickets, and tour info. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Liquid IV: Get 25% off at LiquidIV.com with code GGE25 at checkout. Helix: Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders at helixsleep.com/gge. Daily Harvest: Get $25 off your first box at dailyharvest.com with code GGE. Raycon: Get 15% off your order at buyraycon.com/gge. 

Talking About Abortion with Dr. Meera Shah

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  • 1.6K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 01:38:16

On this episode, we're discussing abortion with Dr. Meera Shah, a family medicine physician who provides abortion care and the recent author of You're the Only One I've Told: The Stories Behind Abortion (September 1 release). Meera provides us with information and facts regarding the abortion process and how it varies from state to state, and we discuss stigmas surrounding this area of reproductive health, why some women choose not to share their stories, barriers to access and marginalized groups that are affected the most, abortion rights and the political climate, and more. While we express our pro-choice stance, this episode is based on factual information and does not criticize those with pro-life beliefs. Before we bring in our guest, we're discussing (and spilling some tea on) a former guest who's been at the top of the pop culture headlines lately, Dale Moss, giving a Brennan update, sharing some listeners' sex tips, and Ashley threatens to FaceTime Rayna's man-who's-not-her-man to have a word. Hope you enjoy! Go to YoureTheOnlyOneIveTold.com for more info on Dr. Meera Shah and to pre-order the book. Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check out our website for merchandise and tour info. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Buffy: For $20 off all Buffy bedding, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. Tushy: Go to hellotushy.com/gge for 10% off your order.