Touch Me, Please
Sex With Emily
- 1.1K views
- over 2 years ago
- 41:32
How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Quarantine has caused many of us to experience a “starvation diet” of physical touch and now it’s to feast. The lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety or depression, on today’s show I’ll share how you can find more touch and intimacy in your daily life. I also answer questions about how to get back out there and date while newly sober, how to bring the excitement back in a sexless relationship, and how to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom. Show Notes: Yes, No, Maybe list Pleasure Planner Frequently Asked Sex Questions Womanizer Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Arcwave, Talkspace, Magic Wand For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
How to Be Happy w/ Dr. Amen
Sex With Emily
- 690 views
- over 2 years ago
- 45:51
What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his new book Your Brain is Always Listening. We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. I also answer your Rapid Fire questions covering everything from tips for hotter shower sex to bring up your kink to a partner. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Honey, Good Vibrations Show notes: Find out which dragons you have here: KnowYourDragons.com Order Dr. Amen’s latest book Your Brain Is Always Listening here: YourBrainIsAlwaysListening.com For more information about Dr. Daniel Amen, visit: danielamenmd.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Get Your Masters in Masturbation
Sex With Emily
- 940 views
- over 2 years ago
- 43:54
Your masturbation class is in session. In today’s episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure. I answer your questions about how to try masturbation when you never have, which sex toys to use, and the magic of mutual masturbation. I get into the tricky relationship between shame and fantasy and discuss how often you should masturbate in a relationship—it’s probably more than you think! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Muse, Tabu, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Best of: Hotter, Deeper Sex w/John Wineland
Sex With Emily
- 710 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 56:05
In this Sex With Emily best of, I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach John Wineland to discuss the driving force behind attraction, sexual connection, and desire. We discuss the polarity of masculine and feminine energy, what symbolic aspects of anal make it so hot, how to build attraction from the inside out, and give tools to enhance connection. We also get into your questions like why the urge to have an affair can be so strong, how to know if there is enough sexual chemistry to pursue a second date, and what to do to bring sex back into your long-term relationship. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Arcwave, Magic Wand, Muse For more information about John Wineland, visit: johnwineland.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Boundaries Are Hot w/ Dr. Jennifer Freed
Sex With Emily
- 710 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 55:51
Setting boundaries within your relationships is not only necessary—it’s hot AF. In today’s episode, psychological astrologer, therapist, and sex educator Dr. Jennifer Freed joins me to discuss how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. We discuss the definition and different types of boundaries (including sexual and financial), what makes them important, how they affect our sex life, and why they might be difficult for some folks to create. We also dive into your email questions like how to avoid drama when you’re the third in a threesome relationship, how to let someone know you’re not into them without ghosting, if talking to escorts is considered cheating, and what to do if your partner is more interested in meeting their sexual desires than yours. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Tabu, Yarlap, Good Vibrations, For more information about Dr. Jennifer Freed, visit: jenniferfreed.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Best of: Sexually Awakened in Isolation w/ Nikki Boyer
Sex With Emily
- 690 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 43:30
Today we’re throwing it back to my interview with Nikki Boyer, host of the limited podcast series “Dying for Sex.” We’re talking about how you can explore and discover new pleasure even when things seem grim. She tells me how during times of uncertainty, a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem. While you can’t really go out and date right now, get inspired to open your mind to new sexual possibilities. Plus, I answer your questions about self-discovery, keeping a long-distance relationship alive, and using lube vs lotion. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Yarlap, Masterclass, Muse, Magic Wand For more information about Nikki Boyer, visit: dyingforsexpodcast.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Lube Up Your Relationship
Sex With Emily
- 590 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 43:09
Today, comedian Adam Ferrara shares how to completely overhaul communication in a long-term relationship. He shares his coping strategies for ADD, why worry isn’t a “responsibility” and blows up the common belief around achievements making us happy (hint: it doesn’t). We also help a caller figure out how to talk to her boyfriend about their passionless sex life—with the right approach, it’s nearly always possible to bring back the magic. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Yarlap, Womanizer, Good Vibrations For more information about Adam Ferrara, visit: adamferrara.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Gifts That Suck (In A Good Way)
Sex With Emily
- 600 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 47:32
‘Tis the season of giving but what if you don’t know how to receive? Receiving can be difficult for many, especially with gifts of oral pleasure. If you have trouble relaxing while someone goes down on you, you’re not alone. To help ease any “receiving anxiety,” I walk you through specific steps you can take to fully enjoy all the gifts coming down your chimney tonight. We also talk to a caller who is more experienced than her partner. Finally, we go over some of the best gifts that our callers have ever received. Surprisingly, they aren’t all pleasure related. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Promescent, Yarlap, Playboy CBD, Exsens For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Am I Dating A Narcissist? w/ Dr Ramani
Sex With Emily
- 620 views
- almost 3 years ago
- 42:26
Today, I am joined by Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology who’s on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. We talk about all things narcissism, including the telltale signs of a narcissistic personality, what to do if you suspect your partner may be one, and how to break the cycle if you keep finding yourself attracting individuals with this personality. Plus, she details manipulation tactics used by narcissists (including the infamous Jeffrey Epstein) and explains popular buzzwords like ‘love-bombing’ and ‘trauma bonding.’ Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Good Vibrations, Playboy CBD, Everlywell, Zumio For more information about Dr. Ramani, visit: doctor-ramani.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Everybody Loves a Happy Ending
Sex With Emily
- 650 views
- about 3 years ago
- 47:22
Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks. We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!) Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: We-Vibe, Everlywell, Magic Wand, Exsens For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Will I Ever Stop Thinking About My Ex?
Sex With Emily
- 660 views
- about 3 years ago
- 56:19
What if I told you that the best sex of your life was on the other side of your fear? We all have them - fear of rejection, fear of asking for what you want, fear of commitment, and fear of being our authentic selves. Today, we discuss the most common roadblocks to more pleasure and how to let them go once and for all. I take calls and answer questions about taking too long to orgasm, period sex, sexual triggers, and performance anxiety in the bedroom. I help you recognize and release what’s holding you back. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: NeLowT, Good Vibrations, Je Joue, Promescent For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
WTF Is Doomsturbating (and Is It Bad for Me?)
Sex With Emily
- 710 views
- about 3 years ago
- 41:23
Today’s episode is all about one of my favorite topics: masturbation. Specifically, we’re getting into “doomsturbating,” or masturbating in order to distract yourself when the world feels like just too much. But how much masturbating is too much? Like anything in life, there’s a limit—here’s how to know if you’ve reached yours. I’m also taking your calls and answering questions about breast sizes, how confidence and self-love can change your bedroom game, how to help your partner reach orgasm, and some super fun handjob tips and tricks. It’s one of the most underrated sex moves! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Exsens, Adam & Eve, Uqora For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Pegging, Glory Holes and Public Masturbation With Carol Queen
Sex With Emily
- 690 views
- about 3 years ago
- 49:07
On today’s show, I’m talking with author, sociologist, and sexology royalty Carol Queen. Carol has been leading the charge for open, honest sex talk for over 40 years. We dive into the CDC’s new glory hole guidelines and Carol’s new favorite all-gender vibrators and much more. I also help a couple find the best sex position for their changing bodies, someone wanting to know where they can live out their public masturbation fantasy and a man who wants to make oral exciting again. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: NeLowT, Good Vibrations, Promescent, Uqora, We-Vibe For more information about Carol Queen, visit: goodvibes.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Daddy Issues, Secret Hookups & Love Bombing With Violet Benson
Sex With Emily
- 810 views
- about 3 years ago
- 44:07
If you’re trying to focus on self-improvement these days, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, Violet Benson talks about how isolation helped her develop a newfound appreciation for self-love and confidence. Violet is also the founder of @DaddyIssues on Instagram and the host of the podcast, Too Tired To Be Crazy. Not only does she discuss her new favorite vibrator, but she also shares how she learned to stop dating toxic people, the new ways she loves her body, and reveals her secret hookup with Too Hot To Handle’s Francesca Fargo. I also break down some important relationship terms: what exactly is “love bombing” and how does it correlate with codependency in relationships? Plus, I help a caller with tips on how to initiate sex without feeling like you’re left rejected. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Uqora, Yarlap, Muse, Womanizer For more information about Violet Benson, visit: instagram.com/violetbenson For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
Talking to Your Kids About Sex With Shafia Zaloom
Sex With Emily
- 650 views
- about 3 years ago
- 53:45
Today on the show, we’ve got Shafia Zaloom, a health educator and author who develops curricula for sex education in schools across the country. Shafia and I discuss the most effective ways parents can teach their kids about sex to develop healthy sexuality and cultivate shame-free knowledge. Shafia also brings up specific words and strategies to use in helping children learn about sex, so that you can go into conversations about sex with an expert-level toolkit. We also get into how to teach consent and what we can do improve Sex Ed in schools. Spoiler: It starts with you!! The show ends with me taking calls and answering questions, like “what do you do if your partner hates oral?” or “how do you stop dating the wrong person?” No question is off-limits. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Uqora, NeLowT, Yarlap, Good Vibrations For more information about Shafia Zaloom, visit: shafiazaloom.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com