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Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

How do you get over someone you never dated and when did dating become so 50 shades of complicated?! I’m getting anxiety just thinking about it. If he likes my picture is he flirting? Why is he ghosting me but watching my stories? Whats the meaning of life? And why can’t I sleep?! I don’t know about you guys, but I’d listen to me talk each week about dating and LA and life and whatever else comes to mind. So here we are and welcome to Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ ). Don’t forget to subscribe!!

She Married A Narcissist w/Manon Mathews

Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

  • 1.7K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 56:17

Have you ever accidentally flew someone halfway around the world and bought a house for the two of you only to find out you didn’t even know his REAL name? You’re not the only one. Today Violet is joined by Internet personality, author, and comedian Manon Mathews! Together the two discuss their lives throughout the pandemic and how to handle internet trolls. Manon then tells us a VERY emotional tale about her ex-husband, revealing ALL of the signs of a classic narcissist and explains how easy it can be to miss the obvious signs when you are head over heels for someone. Naturally, with an experience like Manon’s follows the triumphant story of finding oneself again and learning to get over the worst of heartbreaks. No matter what you’re going through - there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel (and probably a better guy too!) CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS! European Wax Center: Visit wax center dot com and book your reservation today—your first wax is free! Manscaped: Get 20% Off - PLUS Free Shipping – with the code VIOLET at Manscaped dot com ShipStation: Use code VIOLET to get a 60-day free trial at ShipStation.com - click on the microphone at the top of the page, and type in VIOLET

BLOCK HIM BYE w/ Olivia O'brien

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  • 1.5K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 54:02

Were you expecting a fun night of netflix & chill but ended up with netflix & disappointment?? well Violet's got a solution for you!!! Violet is then joined by pop superstar Olivia O’Brien! Together the two discuss how NOT to go crazy over the guy you’re talking to, what their signs mean in regard to their romantic decisions, texting boys for your timid besties, the quarantine blues that we all faced and how deeply affected their mental health was by the pandemic. Olivia also lets Violet in on her step by step creative process, what inspires her music, and her upcoming plans for her career. See you NEXT THURSDAY BADDIES :) Check out this week's sponsors: Billie razors: It’s just $9 to get your starter kit PLUS FREE shipping at MyBillie.com/tootired Bright Cellars: Get 50% off your first 6 bottle orders from Bright Cellars at brightcellars.com/violet50 European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com and book your reservation today — your first wax is free! Honey: Get Honey for FREE at JoinHoney.com/violet

From Side Chick To Main Chick w/Patti Stanger

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  • 1K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 39:14

I don’t cook, I don’t clean, but let me tell you how I got this ring! This week Violet is joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger and she has A LOT to say about your dating game. Tired of being the side chick? Well, Patti teaches you how to become the main and only chick in his life. Patti teaches us specific words and tools you can use to secure the ring, the difference in love languages, and EXACTLY when you should know that it's time to MOVE ON. Ladies, stop wasting your time and heed ALL of the advice in this episode, it’s game changing.

Big Boys DO Cry w/KFC Kevin Clancy

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  • 1.1K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 01:00:08

Sometimes you just have to let it all out...that means you too, boys. This week Violet is joined by Barstool Sports personality, Kevin Clancy, more popularly known as KFC. Together the two have a surprisingly intimate yet HILARIOUS conversation. The unlikely duo dissects the ins and outs of dating in your thirties, how to navigate the dating scene as a parent, and the difficulty men have expressing emotion. Violet also gives KFC a rapid fire dating quiz, only for him to reverse it and put HER on the spot! This episode is jam packed so you do NOT want to miss this! Don't forget to check out my sponsors BADDIES! Triller: Download Triller app and add me @VioletBenson and I will see you on my LIVE podcast recording every Wednesday at 5:30pm PT where you will ask me all the dating questions your heart desires!! Billie: Go to MyBillie.com/tootired - It’s just NINE DOLLARS to get your starter kit PLUS FREE shipping ALWAYS! Bright Cellars: Get 50% off your first six bottle orders at BrightCellars.com/violet50 - You can take their 7 question quiz to get your wine matches, and receive 50% off your first 6 bottle order! Headspace: Go to Headspace.com/tootired for a FREE ONE-MONTH TRIAL with access to Headspace’s full library of meditations for every situation! ShipStation: Use offer code, VIOLET, to get a 60-day free trial at ShipStation.com

Bad B*tch Bootcamp

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  • 1.3K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 44:45

CONGRATULATION BADDIES!!! YOU'VE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM DUMB BISH TO BAD BISH!!!! I'M PROUD OF YOU. I start this episode with the first 20 minutes discussing, my booty hole, anal bleaching, I reminisce on how I started Daddyissues, how I was able to turn the lowest point in my life to one of the best, and how I worked through my daddy issues and changed my whole family's dynamic. The other half of the episode is all about BOYZZZZ. I give you the 12 rules to follow after the first date so you don’t self sabotage yourself, how to be a game changer versus a place holder, and what to do when a man takes a step back. Lastly, I close the episode with checking in with your mental health. Be good Baddies and I'll see you next Thursday!

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

  • 1.1K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 31:54

On this episode we discuss friendship breakup, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of mine that no one knows about. We then dive into how to spot a ride or die BFF, why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of mine. New episode every Thursday. Pls rate & subscribe and don’t forget to follow me on IG at @violetbenson & @tootiredtobecrazy

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp - Recap

Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

  • 1.1K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 51:30

Say hello to your last dumb b*tch bootcamp because after today, you have graduated to BAD B*TCH BOOTCAMP!!! hello 2021! Now let's get you some confidence and a man! :) 0:00 - 27:00 - I address some thoughts from CHD to anal bleaching and then answer some listeners questions. 27:05 - 51:30 - Congratulations you've now officially graduated into Bad B*tch Bootcamp. Don't forget to write me a five star review, send me a screenshot, and I will venmo you $5! Happy new year! see you next Thursday Baddies!

I Am Transgender with Corey Rae

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  • 1.2K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 01:27:12

On this episode we start with getting to know Corey Rae and her journey as the world’s first transgender prom queen, the movie she’s working on, the one thing you should NEVER ask a transgender person, and horror dating stories before and after transition, Corey then goes into a detailed explanation of her transition from her childhood to her transition physically and emotionally, (including hormone blockers, hormone replacement therapy, body dysphoria, sex therapy, gender dysphoria, surgery, voice and facial feminization, tracheal shave, and more). We end the podcast with all questions you ever wanted to know, from sex, to orgasms, to when she finally felt like herself, being stealth, pronouns, finding herself, and learning how to love yourself inside and out. For more information: http://www.coreyrae.com/ https://itgetsbetter.org/ https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ https://transgenderlawcenter.org/ https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/help-yourself/lgbtq/ https://www.betterhelp.com

Sex, Daddy Issues & Fetishes w/Sofia Franklyn

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  • 1.5K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 01:10:04

On this episode, Sofia Frankly, host of Sofia With An F podcast joins me as one of the most requested guests! We cover reverse cow girl, and a "how to" guide to cum when on top and in the "cat" position. We get into the do's and dont's of dating apps, our daddy issues, thoughts on f*cking on the first date, fetishes, and the gluck gluck 9000. We end the episode with tips on eating the p$ssy, Jay Alvarez, bleaching our butth0le, biggest boner killer, and friendship breakups! Make sure to catch me on Sofia's podcast "Sofia With An F"! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review!!  Need a gift idea? Check out my great sponsors! BetterHelp: Go to BetterHelp.com/tootired to get 10% off your first month with the discount code TOOTIRED Honey: Get Honey for free at JoinHoney.com/violet  StoryWorth: Get started right away with no shipping required by going to StoryWorth.com/violet to get $10 off your first purchase! WooMorePlay: Head over to WOO More Play and use code VIOLET for 20 % OFF your order of WOO Vibez today.

How To Cum Every Time w/ Emily Morse!

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  • 1.4K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 01:19:31

Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting??? Check out my amazing sponsors! Honey: Get Honey for free today at www.JoinHoney.com/violet  Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at www.betterhelp.com/tootired  Candid: Save $76 on Candid’s starter kit at www.candidco.com/violet - and use code VIOLET!  

Dating & Crying in LA w/ Brennen & Jake Taylor

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  • 1K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 01:01:17

Are you a verbal slut? Do you ever cry on a hike? Does having a huge following get you laid? Do you ever send nudes to your best friends? What are all the rules of dating in Los Angeles?? YouTuber Brennen Taylor and his co-host / brother Jake Taylor talk about their new scary stories podcast SUS: SHARE UR SCARE... and what it's like to be an influencer dating in LA during a pandemic! Check out my amazing sponsors! Better Help: Get 10% off your first month with the discount code "TOOTIRED" - Get started today at www.betterhelp.com/tootired  Candid: Save $76 on Candid’s starter kit at www.candidco.com/violet - and use code VIOLET!  Woo More Play: Head over to www.woomoreplay.com/violet for 20% OFF your order of WOO! OR use code ‘VIOLET’ at checkout for 20% off!

Dumb B*tch Bootcamp 2

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  • 1.2K views
  • over 3 years ago
  • 49:50

We start the episode with a roomate edition where Francesca Farago and I spill the tea on all the questions you guys asked!!! like whether we've ever hooked up, how we became roomates, if we're dating, and more!!!! this is one episode where we did kiss and tell he he. I then continue the episode with another DUMB B*TCH BOOTCAMP and its a good one!! by the time you finish this episode you will walk out a brand new b*tch, I guarantee it!

fake Butts, Cheap Lipo & Anti Semitism w/ Dr. Nazarian

Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

  • 1.1K views
  • almost 4 years ago
  • 01:13:35

Joining me today is award-winning plastic surgeon and star of Skin Decision on Netflix. Dr. Sheila Nazarian! We discuss it all from who’s getting work done and lying to you about it, one procedure you shouldn’t get done, self esteem all the way to escaping Iran and anti semitism in the US. TIME CODES: 0 - 39:28 - She's here to tell us all about plastic surgery including procedures she recommends, what people are getting the most done right now, she confirms celebs are lying about being natural and calls them out, the current unrealistic beauty standards, what a vagina is supposed to look like, getting lipo done, types of butt surgeries, the most current most trending procedure that you should STAY AWAY FROM, the importance of loving yourself before going under the knife, and why you should NEVER get cheap plastic surgery! 39:28 - 1:14:00 - We then have an in depth conversation about our shared faith and religion. Sheila tells the story of her family being smuggled into Pakistan from Iran and later moving to the US to escape anti-Semitism. How she met the man who saved her family’s life, the holocaust, the reason I legally changed my jewish last name, how anti-Semitism is still very much an issue all over the world even within the US, including personal stories.

Sex Stories, Older Men, & STD's w/ Hannah Berner

Too Tired To Be Crazy with Violet Benson

  • 1.3K views
  • almost 4 years ago
  • 01:07:15

My guest this week is a standup comedian, cast member on Summer House on Bravo AND host of her podcast Berning in Hell, Hannah Berner! We kickoff the episode by talking about d*ck. Curved d*ck to be exact. She shares her experience with different d*ck sizes and why bigger isn't ALWAYS better! We discuss what marriage d*ck means, my wide set vageen, the one lie every man has told you that you fell for, and tips on dating an athlete. We then get into scorpios and Leos, why older men are the move, signs you’re about to get ghosted by the nice f*ckboy, how to have that X factor that will get all the boys coming back. We end the podcast with normalizing STD’s and Hannah shares a bunch of embarrassing drunken sex stories with the class like the time she farted on a man while he was eating her out… and that’s not all! Tune in and don’t forget to leave a review when you’re done. <3 Follow Hannah on IG at @BeingBernz and check out her Berning In Hell podcast.