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The Dr. John Delony Show

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU!

I Kicked My Husband out of the House

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 740 views
  • 9 months ago
  • 53:37

On this episode, we hear about: ·      A woman grappling with her husband’s violent outbursts ·      A husband seeking advice on how to support his anxious wife ·      New parents facing the tough decision of moving away from family   Offers From Today's Sponsors 10% off your first month of therapy at BetterHelp!   3 free months of Hallow  25% off Thorne orders  20% off Organifi with code: DELONY Up to 30% off + 2 Free Pillows at Helix Sleep Next Steps 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or click here! 📚 Get Building a Non-Anxious Life 📝 Take the Anxiety Test  📚 Own Your Past, Change Your Future  ❓ Questions for Humans Conversation Cards  💭 John's Free Guided Meditation  Listen to More From Ramsey Network 🎙️ The Ramsey Show   🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour 💡 The Rachel Cruze Show 💸 The Ramsey Show Highlights 💰 George Kamel 💼 The Ken Coleman Show 📈 EntreLeadership   Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy https://www.ramseysolutions.com/compa…

My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Anymore

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  • 760 views
  • 10 months ago
  • 48:03

On this episode, we hear about: -       A man wondering if his marriage can be saved -       A woman struggling with how her mom treats her brother -       A woman unsure if moving out of state is the right decision Offers From Today's Sponsors 10% off your first month of therapy at BetterHelp!   3 free months of Hallow  25% off Thorne orders  20% off Organifi with code: DELONY 20% off + 2 Free Pillows at Helix Sleep Next Steps 📞 Ask John a question! Call 844-693-3291 or click here! 📚 Get Building a Non-Anxious Life 📝 Take the Anxiety Test  📚 Own Your Past, Change Your Future  ❓ Questions for Humans Conversation Cards  💭 John's Free Guided Meditation  Listen to More From Ramsey Network 🎙️ The Ramsey Show   🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour 💡 The Rachel Cruze Show 💸 The Ramsey Show Highlights 💰 George Kamel 💼 The Ken Coleman Show 📈 EntreLeadership   Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy https://www.ramseysolutions.com/compa…

We Hardly Ever Have Sex

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 1.3K views
  • about 1 year ago
  • 01:03:48

On this episode, we hear about: - A woman at a loss for how to improve intimacy with her husband - A wife desperate to rebuild trust in her marriage - A woman reeling after learning her dad is still alive To buy tickets to the upcoming Money & Marriage event click here. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp Hallow Organifi Eight Sleep Apollo Neuro Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Building a Non-Anxious Life Anxiety Test Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

I Think I May Be a Jerk of a Husband

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  • 1K views
  • about 1 year ago
  • 57:06

On this episode, we hear about: - A husband hoping to do better in his marriage - A wife desperate to connect with her husband - A woman wondering how to stop feeling guilty for her boundaries with family Lyrics of the Day: "Desperately" - Slaughter Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp Hallow Organifi Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Building a Non-Anxious Life Anxiety Test Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

Can My Marriage Be Saved?

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  • 1K views
  • about 1 year ago
  • 01:03:08

On this episode, we hear about: - A husband desperate to fix his marriage - A mom of three struggling to find motivation and accomplish her goals - A woman grieving the relationship and life she thought she’d have Lyrics of the Day: "Walk on Water" - Eminem Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show.  Support Our Sponsors: BetterHelp Hallow Organifi Eight Sleep Apollo Neuro Thorne Add products to your cart create an account at checkout Receive 25% off ALL orders Resources: Building a Non-Anxious Life Anxiety Test Own Your Past, Change Your Future Questions for Humans Conversation Cards John’s Free Guided Meditation Listen to all The Ramsey Network podcasts anytime, anywhere in our app. Download at: https://apple.co/3eN8jNq These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. https://www.megaphone.fm/adchoices Ramsey Solutions Privacy Policy

Postpartum Depression, Family Boundaries, & Fear of Public Speaking

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  • 1.5K views
  • almost 4 years ago
  • 54:41

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU!   Show Notes for this Episode   I'm about to have my second child and wondering how can I better handle the postpartum depression and sleep deprivation this time around?  My 19-year-old daughter is pregnant with her second child. We have custody of her first child. How much do we support her this time around? Book recommendations for hard conversations Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most - Douglas Stone Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High - Kerry Patterson I’ve been offered a leadership program at work that will require public speaking. I am terrified. What can I do? Lyrics of the Day: "Kingdom Come" - Coldplay   tags: depression, parenting, sleep, family, boundaries, disagreement/conflict, fear, anxiety, workplace/career   These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Anxious Kids, Avoiding Divorce, & a Marriage Stressed by Work Travel

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  • 1.4K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 45:47

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:26: My 9-year old has been through a lot and I want to make sure he's okay mentally 17:07: How do I approach my marriage growing up with divorced parents? 28:30: The January Sugar Challenge 33:46: How do I deal with work travel and a wife who struggles with separation? 44:02: Lyrics of the Day: "What It Takes" - Aerosmith tags: parenting, anxiety, divorce, marriage, fitness/physical, health, nutrition, workplace/career These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Ask Me Anything: John Answers Your Questions About Himself

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 2.2K views
  • about 4 years ago
  • 57:05

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:54: Morning Routine (45m-1.5h) Ben Greenfield fitness Tools of Titans - Tim Ferris 7-8h sleep gratitude journal, Bible, notecard meditation (Insight Timer app) coffee, green tea feet on bare ground workout (30-60m), go for a walk/ruck Jocko: Push, Pull, Squat & Lift Protocol hang upside down on Teeter inversion table cold immersion/exposure physical touch with wife & kids breakfast with kids Human Charger 12:36: Diet no sugar, no grains 15-16h between meals/Intermittent Fasting lots of high quality fats, meats berries with heavy cream occasional whiskey, not much drinking supplements: look for a later episode 16:08: Books I read a lot, as much as I can: books, articles, blog I re-read books Fight Club - Chuck Palahniuk Catcher in the Rye - J. D. Salinger Born to Run - Bruce Springsteen I Don't Want to Talk About It - Terrence Real Antifragile - Nassim Nicholas Taleb Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski Finding Meaning - David Kessler Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay C. Gibson The Deepest Well - Nadinen Burke Harris M.D. Gabor Maté  M.D. Brené Brown The Gift of Therapy - Irvin Yalom Dr. Henry Cloud Behave - Robert M. Sapolsky Patrick Lencioni Ready Player One - Ernest Cline Mating in Captivity - Esther Perel Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely Why We Get Fat - Gary Taubes The Road - Cormac McCarthy The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Mark Twain Justice - Michael J. Sandel Theology: Tim Wise, Rob Bell, Richard Rohr, N. T. Wright, Richard Beck Anne Lamott The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Young Adult Fiction: The Harry Potter series - J. K. Rowling The Wingfeather Saga - Andrew Peterson The Wildwood Chronicles - Colin Meloy & Carson Ellis The Wilder Good series - S. J. Dahlstrom Poets: Def Comedy Jam, Langston Hughes   20:54: Comedians: Cosby, Pryor, Chapelle, Lewis Black, Steve Martin, Seinfeld, Nate Bargatze, Robin Williams 22:13: Music Guns & Roses, Rage Against the Machine, Dream Theater, Pantera, Deftones, all 80s har metal, Poison, Def Leppard, Warrant, Rat old punk: Bad Brains, Black Flag, Henry Rollins, Social Distortion, Sick of It All, Hatebreed The Killers, Foo Fighters Trippin Daisy, Ned's Atomic Dustbin Blink-182, 30-foot Fall, Goldfinger, MXPX Bebo Norman, Caedmon's Call, Eric Peters, Andrew Peterson, Andy Osenga Ani DiFranco, Damien Rice, Frank Turner, The Avett Brothers, Brandon Flowers, Bruce Springsteen, Tobe Nwigwe, Jay-Z, Notorious BIG, Dr. Dre, Warren G, Houston rap, Run DMC, LL Cool, Grandmaster Flash, Ice Cube Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin Jimi Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Guy Clarke Jr. ambient electronica, lo-fi beats Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Garth Brookes, Merle Haggard Third Eye Blind 27:01: Movies: Goodwill Hunting, Stand By Me, Meet the Parents, Requiem for a Dream, Spaceballs, Major League, Karate Kid, Titanic, American History X, Adam Sandler, Will Ferrell 28:58: Living in the woods vs. the city Mandelbrot, fractals 30:29: Why do you block out your kids pictures on social media? 32:07: How long have you been married? 32:23: Favorite food 32:34: Enneagram/Myers Brigg 34:46: Favorite places to travel 35:13: Who in history would you want to hang out with?  36:10: How did you and your wife meet? 37:46: Things that get you the most anxious? 40:36: How much money is in your swear jar right now? 40:50: Biggest change coming from TX to TN 42:20: What's your beef with Crossfit? 43:03: Do you find yourself being Dr. John when your wife just needs her husband? 43:56: What are some of your biggest influences on the advice you give? Dr. Andy Young Dr. Jean-Noel Thompson Michael Gibson Professors in grad school Mom & dad, wife, family Yalom, Glaser, Gabor Maté, Terrance Real, Henry Cloud 45:27: Have you hd your own mental health challenges? 45:48: With your experience, what has stopped you in your tracks? 47:29: What car do you drive? 47:38: How do you deal with having different opinions than Dave? 47:51: Ultimate comfort food 48:06: Who are your mentors? 48:25: How you manage staying humble and be successful? 50:55: Guitar of choice? 51:52: Opinion on using weeds and drugs recreationally 52:37: How do you keep balanced if a question goes against your beliefs or morals? 54:51: Lyrics of the Day: "Thunder Road" - Bruce Springsteen   These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (S.A.D.) & the Aftermath of an Abortion

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 1.3K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 46:05

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:57: How do I move past an abortion I had last year? 25:02: What are your thoughts on paying for counseling/therapy while in debt? 29:05: How do I deal with seasonal affective disorder? 1) Go outside and enjoy nature 2) Connect with other people 3) Eat well, sleep well, exercise 4) Have things to look forward to John's nerd things: Morning routine: meditation, feet on bare ground, exercise Wim Hof, cold thermogenesis, ice baths Vitamin D/K2, magnesium The Human Charger 42:56: Success email: Wife is proud of her awesome husband 44:29: Lyrics of the day: "Friday I'm In Love" - The Cure tags: abortion, guilt, grief, depression, seasonal affective disorder, Wim Hof, cold thermogenesis, ice baths, vitamin D, magnesium, the human charger These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Dealing With Your Past & Leading Through Trauma

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 1.3K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 46:34

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:33: Should I agree to be the best man in my best friend's wedding if I don't agree with the marriage? 10:24: I'm a married 36-year-old with 4 boys and life is not what I expected. How do I reconcile my expectations and my reality? 20:19: I ran away from home 5 years ago; how do I start reconciling with my family? 33:02: As an ER doctor, how do I talk to my staff after traumatic events? Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D 45:17: Lyrics of the day: "Ghostbusters" - Ray Parker Jr. tags: friendship, marriage, trauma, pain, parenting, counseling, expectations, family, hard conversations, abuse, leadership These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Family Boundaries, Bipolar Disorder, & Keeping Mentally Healthy this Winter

The Dr. John Delony Show

  • 1.3K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 45:37

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:23: My sister has anxiety but uses it as a crutch to avoid responsibility. 12:56: How do I move on past a friendship when my friend has unhealthy mental health habits? National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 21:19: Teaching segment: Staying Mentally & Physically Healthy This Winter During COVID 30:35: My wife is bipolar and things have gotten bad; how do I salvage my marriage? 44:07: Lyrics of the day: "Little Wing" - Jimi Hendrix tags: anxiety, family, boundaries, suicide, self-harm, mental health, depression, despair, counseling, fitness, nutrition, creativity, bipolar disorder, marriage These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately.

Do You Feel Like You're Failing as a Parent?

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  • 1.4K views
  • over 4 years ago
  • 32:40

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So, send us your questions, leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291, or email askjohn@ramseysolutions.com. We want to talk to YOU!